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no such thing as happy endings.
theres this guy that im close to.
i used to like him, and he had a small thing for me before, i told him i liked him twice (both different times) and now hes being really clingy. hes a really REALLY sensitive guy. and its getting annoying. he wants me to get online all the itme - and he always flirts with me which i dont mind too much, thats who he is. but i dont like talking to him as much anymore, i used to stay up late and talk to him.
i wanna end our friendship, i mean i wanna be friends with him, but i dont wanna be liek close friends anymore. its summer, and we're both moving to different countries. what should i do wihtout telling him i dont wanna be friends, or as tight anymore? i mean he notices when i lose contact with him, he'll either text me, or call me (but he hardly does that), and hes prety close friends with my brother, so i dont know what to do. its like no escape - i dont wanna block or delete him. and he knows when iignore him he thinks im mad.
HELP PLEASE !
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Simply just dont reply to his texts or calls,or atleast not all of them.Eventually he'll get the hint and get sick of trying to get in contact with you.If one day you relize you dont like not talking to him,all you got to do is call him up!Yall will be in two diff. countries anyways so that will be enough distance to get him out of your hair.hope this helps!
xo southern
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I would just stop talking to him. Eventually, he'll get the idea. Your brother can talk to him and be good friends with him, but that doesn't mean you have to. If he thinks your mad, whatever. You want to stop talking to him. You don't owe him an explanation. I don't know where you or him are moving but i doubt he's going to be visiting or vis versa. If he does vist and sayd, "Why are you mad?" or, "Why are you ignoring me?" or somthing along that line just tell him that you were busy. Eventually, he will get the message your trying to give him. He can't be that dumb. Your little "fling" is done. The flame is gone. You might just want to tell him that. If he's that hurt he won't want to talk to you without feeling bad. The choice is up to you. No one can make if but YOU.
hope you make the right one.
--either way, everything is going to work out, so don't sweat it.
-E
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