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Hair
Down there!
As far as sexual exploration goes, what should I do with it?
I'm 17/F and anything been done as is has all been upper, but things are advancing.
Don't tell me to talk to him, just tell me the general norm, please.
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at the very least, trim and keep it neat. if you shave or wax the bikini line, carefully apply some astringint to help keep ingrown hairs at bay. i actually do this and it works and it helps, but nothing's a cure-all.
personally, i never shave it all off unless it's a special occasion or if i'm with a guy who shaves his all off. your guy may balk at the suggestion, but my ex told me it actually felt better that way for him to be shaved too; and of course, i was more willing to give him oral. (what can i say, girls dislike hair pie as much as guys do.)
if you're shaving, buy some itty-bitty razors specifically designed for shaving down there. you can find some cheap ones at walmart, and they're just as good as the priceier versions. i definity suggest a thick, mostuire rich, foaming shaving gel. stay away from the scented ones, and stick with a basic one like Aveeno or Satin Care sensitive skin.
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For the most part, guys enjoy when the vagina is shaved; atleast thats what I've been told. The problem is that when the hair starts to grow out a little bit it can feel really rough against a guy's skin so you have to keep shaving it daily. This can also lead to irritation and unattractive shave bumps.
You can always go natural, but I've heard that can freak a guy out sometimes if it gets too ... um, natural.
I think the most common thing is just to keep it trimmed. Keep the hair about a centimeter or so long, just shave off the sides of the bikini line to keep that part clean. You can trim the other hairs that you're going to keep with a sharp, clean pair of scissors or by lighting running a razor over the top of it.
Good luck!
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