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I admit i have a jealousy problem
i recently moved to a country where there are a lot of people with very tan skin and brown eyes.
rarely, there are much people that come here and have blue eyes.
I have a boyfriend and we already told each other that we love each other.
my boyfriend knows i have a crush on green day's lead singer billie joe armstrong.
and he knows i like when guys have blue eyes/green eyes and black hair.
he liked girls with blonde hair but went out with me(there are hardly any girls in the country that go to our school with blonde hair, infact, none have blonde hair that go to our school)
then he moved on to black hair and bright colored eyes.
my boyfriend and i were hanging out and his brother unexpectedly came up to us, we jogged into a conversation and then his brother mentioned this guy and this girl from this private school walking along the road earlier yesterday night or whatever.
the brother said the girls name and my boyfriend was like, "wow she has such pretty eyes"
I realize boys dont realize when they make girls jealous sometimes.
but his zodiac says he appreciates art.
and i asked him and he does.
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but i feel jealous!
i have brown hair and brown eyes.
but i dye my hair black (because i WANT TO. its my choice) and my irises is what my boyfriend likes, like the shape of the way they go, instead of like an umbrella, they go circular and he doesnt cheat at all and believe me, he tries his hardest to be perfect and i completely appreciate it. i do the same for him.
i believe we're both trying to hard since im his first girlfriend and hes my first boyfriend.
i believe im being unfair though, considering i HEARD im the second cutest girl in the country. (from a group of boys that are friend's point of view)
and a lot of guys flirt with me and look at me.
and i dont flirt back.
anyways my boyfriend doesnt like the girl with pretty eyes, and he said that he cant find anything distinctive about her that would catch his eye.
i just feel awkward.
i tried to dream incubate last night (asking my mind for a specific dream on a specific subject) and i asked for a dream that would help me with my jealousy problem with love.
and i know relationships are all about trust.
i trust him in a way, but im starting to slip on the trust, and hes not doing anything that would trigger it!
its my own mind messing with me.
ive just been screwed around on trust so much.
if i could have help to kill my jealousy problem once and for all, id be SO HAPPY!
any methods,
thoughts, solutions, things i could talk about. i need help!!! pleeeasee !!
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i'm a sucker for aries guys with pearly whites, strong hands, tight calves, and big...well, you know. but that doesn't mean i'm going to chase after every guy that meets these requirements. and your boyfriend isn't going to chase after every blue-eyed, blonde who stares up at the sistine chapel ceiling until the blood has pooled to the back of her brain. he's dating YOU, not that other girl. sure he may appreciate a good looking girl when he sees one, but it's obvious that you're number one on his list. and you even mentioned yourself that you also appreciate other good looking guys; keep that in mind when you start turning green and shouting "i'm getting angry."
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i ave this same exact problem... but if it helps, this is what i do.. we've been together for 7 months.. i just simply let him be.. and simply say hey, if he cheats, then his loss because im a great girl, pretty, great personality... just step out of yourself for once and realize your pros...forget your cons... plus, he's with you for a reason not just for fun.... i think you should talk to him about your jelousy that way he doesnt trigger it anymore... communication!!! hehe thats whats needed...a good talk from both sides... and yeah youre right, its all in your head... maybe youve gone through things so many times youve found it hard to blindly trust... good luck!!!
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