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Question Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 11:42 am

Me and this guy who have been hooking up for a while had dry sex last night. I was in my underwear (lace thong), and he was in some briefs. He mighttt not have bee wearing it he might have taken it off by then (I later gave him a handjob, but nothing farther).
MYY underwear never came off, but I have this huge fear of getting an STD, so is there any possibility I could've gotten one if he had one? I don't think he has one, but what if he did? That would suckk...
Also you cant get an STD through a hj right?
PS theres NO chance of me getting pregnant. I'm also on the pill.


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MAK answered Thursday June 19 2008, 1:24 am:
If there was an exchange of bodily fluids (i.e. his pre-ejaculate or semen absorb into your underwear and travel up to your vagina), then you are definately at risk. Even if you don't show symptoms, that does not mean a thing. I would schedule an appointment with a lady doctor to get tested for any STD's so you can start treatment asap if it turns out you're positive for a disease.

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junebug93 answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 8:36 pm:
If your thong was really sheer and lacy, there is a chance for an STD to leak through. However, because most STDs are only transferred when either your genitals or the body fluids have direct contact, I would say you will not get an STD (this is me assuming you have some sort of cotton or other material without holes over your vagina).

If you gave him a handjob, the only way to get an STD would be to wipe yourself with the fluids that got on your hands. Which I am assuming you did not do.

As for pregnancy, as the user below suggested, the pill is not 100% effective, however it is at least 99% effective, which is fairly close, and this number increases if you take it more and more consistently every day.

By the way, if you are really worried about STDs, a good idea would be to get him checked out at some sort of clinic. Once he is tested, and you are still on the pill, there will be a lot less to worry about. As well, whenever he is without pants it might be a good idea to put a condom on him, just in case.

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marajm34 answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 7:10 pm:
because you were wearing lace then some of your skin was exposed. if he was not wearing anything then his skin was exposed. there are STDs that are contracted though skin contact. Herpes and HPV to name 2. these are two are lifers.herpes and some forms of HPV are with you for life, that is there is no cure. And especially for woman, you may not even know you are infected. Also you can contract these viruses w/o having an outbreak, this means there is no way of telling if your partner has it.

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jessicamarie answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 1:30 pm:
okay. first off. if the guy does have an std. it is possible for you to get it, semen can seep through clothing and give stds or pregnancies.
2nd. just a handjob. no you cant, unless the semen got into you.
3rd. i understand that you are on the pill, but the pill is never 100% so dont think that its not possible to get pregnant, its just not likely.

-jessicamarie.

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DHunter answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 1:18 pm:
You should be fine. Hand Jobs and Dry sex won't give you an STD or make you pregnant. Need anything else just ask.

Your Advice Guy,
Chad

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