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friendship...love life?
i have this friend, lets call her A. we're pretty good friends, but shes's more um...open to guys than me. don't get me wrong i can flirt and be very friendly with guys but she like sits on their laps and hooks up alot. she's really pretty.
heres my problem:
i feel like whenever i go somewhere and meet a guy with my other friends he supposedly tells my friends he "likes" me and wanted to go on a date or something. when i hang out with her the guy told my friends he "likes" her and denied ever liking me. shes really nice to me but she hooks up with alot of guys and she has hooked up with one of our good friend's guy (they werent officially going out but she knew she liked him) im kinda scared cause i dont want her to do that with this guy i really like, i think he likes me too and im afraid she'll ruin it because shes really pretty and a bit more easier than me. what should i do?
17/f
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Tell her you really like him, and you think he likes you. and just tell her how you feel.
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you are prolly right
that guy prolly did like you
but guys are shallow and if they find someone that will allow them in their pants then they will say anything they want to. Try hanging out and flirting with guys when she isn't around. Because it sounds like she is desperate and she doesn't relize that this is hurting you. Tell her about it, call the guy, ask him to hang out sometime and have some confidence!
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Okay, first of all, in case your worried that if you stay her friend you'll never get a date:
boys your age are very shallow and inconsiderate. With a few exceptions but only a few. You'll notice that as you get older most of them will go for someone that sticks.
When i was younger i had the same problem and i always tried to avoid the two (my pretty friend and my crush) from meeting. But now I'm like, hey, if this guy likes me, or atleast gives me the impression that he likes me, why would he go for the next best (prettier) thing? If he would, then either he isnt that in to me, or he's really really immature, and clearly not ready for a steady relationship. In that case you'll just have to move on. Its no use to put energy and effort in something or someone that wont budge.
However, if that guy gives you signs that he likes you, and he tries to be around you, you shouldnt be worried that he will spontaniously lose interest in you after seeing your pretty friend. Maybe he's one of the few that sticks?
I hope I made some sense, I really do get where you're coming from.
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