is there anything you can use so that when a guy goes down on you it doesn't taste bad or sweaty or anything? i want it to like smell and taste good but not like berry flovored or anything that would be obvious. my goal is for him to not know i used anything. thanks!!
Yes, you should definately shower as close as you can before the encounter; however, you are never suppose to apply soap inside your vagina for various reasons. When cleaning your vaginal area, you simply apply soap to your outer bits--which means nothing within the "lips" of the vagina.
By applying soap to your actual vagina, you majorly increase the chances of developing a yeast or bacterial infection. Yeast infections are basically easily curable and simply irritating but bacterial infections can be extremely harmful and can lead to major complications years later. Both infections basically have the same sort of symptoms so it's very hard to figure out which is which--meaning a doctor's appointment is definately required.
This is also a concern if you are considering douching. Douching is very unhealthy for the body but some women prefer to use such products before engaging in oral sex. This being said, there is quite the selection at your local store.
The vagina is naturally cleansing itself so there is no need to use any products on it. If you apply something that disrupts it's natural balance you can easily develop an infection. The vagina is delicate and has a special PH balance that is kept in check. This is also why you are constantly discharging--it's your body cleansing itself naturally. Technically, your vagina is not dirty.
Along with the soap issue, oral sex can also lead to such infections because of the mouth carrying so much dirt and oils. In addition, you can also pass STDs/STIs along via oral contact. This means you are risking your health in a more serious manner than you may have previously thought. This is how many, many people end up with herpes on their genitals, by the way.
Next, you should realize that your own pheromones are attractive to the opposite gender. Of course you secrete more of these scents in your lower regions as to attract a mate. This being said, the man will probably be interested in your natural odor and taste and will not think of it as dirty or unattractive. [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
helloxdear13 answered Thursday June 12 2008, 3:14 pm: Well, this is kind of an awkward question for me to answer but... I think the best think you can do is just take a shower right before the... deed and use regular ivory soap... [ helloxdear13's advice column | Ask helloxdear13 A Question ]
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