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help me bREAkUP :(
i know that breaking up with someone you love is hard. especially for me.
well let me tell you about my relationship.
his name is josh. hes smart, sweet, and sensitive.
we been together for about 2 months or so. Although its been a very short relationship, i think that its time to say goodbye.
Josh moved to california about a month ago, and he is not coming back to hawaii for another year or so. and there is no way whatsoever that i can go to california due to expence.
the question is, i still like josh, but i dont want to have this kind of relationship. Everyone tells me that the worst way to break up with someone is in email, text, letter, or phone. but how else am i going to breakup with him. There is no way we can see each other, and i am NOT going to wait a year.
so what i am asking you is... How do i do this the nicest way possible??? I cant see him, and i want to break up. but yet, i still love him. So how would i break up with him? tips are welcomed:)
[just to let you know, josh is very sensitive, and i dont wanna hurt him]
i thank you in advance. you have no idea how much you would help me:)
thanks.
sorry this is long.... kristy:)
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Ok, given your certain circumstances, I think it's considered ok for you to call him to do it. Also, when you call him, let him know everything you said. About how you still love him, but the distance thing is kind of hard for you and you don't think it'll work good like that
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fisrt let me say if you love him as you say then you would try and wait!
now breaking up is not so hard but you say he is sensitive so i would say call him. now during this conversation you tell him that you dont think the distance between the two of you is good for a relationship. now then you write the letter telling him everything this way he would know you care and know you want to be with him but distance is not good.
im sure he will understand. try asking him for a break in stead if breaking up. this mean yall can see other people untill you to are togather again. dont date other people cause then your feelings will be in a blits.
hope i helped
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let me first say that I am sorry that he moved away. I know how hard it is to see someone you love move away, but I really admire you for knowing that the right thing to do is break up with him. I know it must have been a really hard decision for you to make. The best way to let him know is to just tell him. I know that you obviouslt don't have the best circumstances because you can't see him in person... but the over the phone is your next best option. Texts and emails are too impersonal because he can't hear your voice. another option is video chat.. if you have it? just tell him exactly what you wrote here... that you still love him, but it is just too hard because you are so far away.
Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out :)
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