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babys death before its born
my mom just told me that my pregnant aunt is in the hospital because she fell on a flight of stairs this morning and had bad stomach pains every since then . mom thinks that she lost the baby . could you loose a baby from falling down a flight of stairs ? and if the baby is dead inside of her , are the doctors at the hospital going to suction the baby out or is it going to be alot of blood when she pees then the tissues and ambilicull cord and everythign just gonna come out when she pees ?
im so concerned about my aunt. please tell me everything you know about a baby dying inside of you!!
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Where you pee is different from where a baby comes out so of course you can't pee a baby out. If the baby is already dead inside, most likely it won't miscarriage. It'l probably be a stillborn, meaning it's born dead, but it's still kind of like, "born"
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First off, don't lie to Advicenators. We're really not as dumb as you must think we are. If you are serious about a question then you have to give us the truth or we can't really answer you properly.
We really don't like being lied to because we try very hard to help others here.
Secondly, I know it is not your aunt you are concerned about. Nobody in your family is even pregnant, most likely, but you. You see, paid users can view ALL of your questions and the replies. You just asked in your previous question about you getting an abortion because you want to get rid of your baby.
Here is a link to your previous question if it has seemed to slip your mind as to what you have previously told Advicenators:
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Now, I informed you pretty well about abortion but I think you are a little lost--that or you refused to read my response completely. I will try to be as clear as possible.
You do NOT pee the baby out! The baby is not located in your bladder. It is located in your uterus, which sits close to the bladder and has a totally different entrance to. The urinary tract really has nothing to do with the vagina and uterus.
The bladder holds your liquid wastes and is connected to the outside of your body by a tube called the urethra. Your uterus is the environment in which babies develop in and it's connected to the outside world by the vagina. The bladder/urethra does not connect with the uterus/vagina at all.
So, in short, the uterus is where the baby is currently living. When the baby is expelled (at birth or otherwise) it exits only through your vagina.
Here is a diagram of where your urethra is in comparison to where your vaginal opening is (they are labeled as "external urethral opening" and "vaginal opening"):
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Here is a diagram of where your uterus is compared to where your bladder is (bladder is colored yellow and the uterus is colored blue):
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If you PEED the baby out then it would mean the baby lives in the bladder--where your urine is kept until it's expelled through your urethra. The urethra is a tiny hole located a little bit above the vaginal opening. The vaginal opening is a much larger hole comparatively if you look at the diagrams.
See, a vagina is where your partner inserted his penis and where you may regularly insert tampons. You don't pee from that hole if you didn't already know that. This is why women can urinate while having a tampon in. Your urethra is quite small and a penis/tampon could not even fit in it.
Whoever you told you that you can pee a baby out is completely ignorant.
Next, the reason that people are hospitalized because of a miscarriage is because it can be very fatal. Falling down a flight of stairs can be EXTREMELY hurtful to your body. It's more likely that you would hemorrhage (bleed) to death, especially that you're anemic.
Yes, you can lose a baby by falling down a flight of stairs. You can also very well lose your own life. One bump to the head in the right manner and your life could be completely over. If not that, you could be left with broken bones and serious bruises. Many people die from simple accidents like that.
IF your "aunt" really did fall down a flight of stairs (and, no, I do not believe this for a second) and the baby did die then her body already began to expel the tissues and such. The doctors will go in and scrap out the inside of her uterus in HOPES that she doesn't get an infection or be left with scar tissue. She would still bleed just as much, if not much more because of the seriousness of the matter, from falling down stairs as having an abortion. She would bleed for weeks probably--just like an abortion--only she may suffer some more pain because of the injuries.
Any way it is, when a woman loses a baby--abortion, miscarriage, accident, etc.--it is extremely risky. Accidents are probably the most riskiest followed by an actual abortion. Purposely miscarrying means you damaged your body so much that it can no longer function properly.
Stop trying to kill your own baby and start acting like a grown-up. You made grown-up choices and now it's time to figure out how you're going to deal with them.
You do not need to murder your unborn child.
Adoption is completely available and it costs NOTHING.
Hell, you can even leave a newborn at a hospital and you won't be questioned or anything. It is LEGAL to just up and leave your newborn in the hospital if you don't want it.
Regarding your pregnancy: Your parents WILL get over it.
Your partner WILL get over it--even if they do not support you! There are MANY women who make it as a single mother.
There is no reason to stop another's life because you're too selfish to let it interfere with yours. Your baby did NOTHING wrong! He/she did not choose to be created. He/she did not decide it was smart for you to be having sex when you weren't ready to deal with possible consequences.
Do not take an innocent life.
And for another thing:
Stop lying to us.
Be honest and we can help you better.
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