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flirting?
so my guy friend always flirts with me and finds little ways to hold touch my hand or legs and stuff
how can i give him that extra boost of confidence to actually hold my hand or more..?
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I agree with the answer below me, this can work both ways. He doesn't have to be the one to make a move. If you want him to do something, why not trying it out on him first?
I think YOU should hold HIS hand. This way, you're showing that you're comfortable doing more, and this shows him that you'll be ok when he decides to make a move and hold yuor hand or whatever.
-Laura. (16-f)
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It works both ways.
Don't just wait for him to do it all, because it can be rather daunting for him.
Next time he finds a way to touch your hand, why don't you be the one to keep hold of it?
Copy what he does. You should find ways to touch his hands etc, too. It'll show him you're comfortable with what he's doing and might spur him to do it more and not be so nervous about actually holding your hand.
Good luck. :)
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oh seriously girl, is that a question?
Simply show him that your interested. "How" you wonder?
During those few times when he finds little ways to hold or touch your hand or legs and stuff, hold his hands for a little longer and like smile at him, as if telling him that you like it when he does that or that your enjoying it or that you want him to do it again later or simply that its cool with you, and you don't mind him doing that or maybe you could do the first step yourself, meaning that you could find little ways of your own to touch his hands and stuff, or maybe when your joking you could you know, playfully hit him on the shoulder or pinch him in his tummy.
Believe me, he'll get the hint and a super dooper boost of confidence and he'll do so much more than holding your hand.
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