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love triangle-square?
my best friend and i have both had a difficult year with our significant other. i have had an on and off relationship for the past year with a guy who is graduating next week and she has had the same relationship with his best friend for three years. they've recently broken up and my guy and i have just stopped talking. the two guys are both best friends as well and they've randomly stopped talking. my friend's ex goes to my school with me and my ex and he has been showing a lot of signs that he likes me and isn't doing it to make her jealous bcs he's had feelings for me prior to their relationship and i'm afraid i'm falling for him too and know i shouldn't pursue anything but i don't know what to do bcs i can really see this going somewhere but am completely against hurting her in anyway and understand that it should be chicks before dicks and all that. but is there any reason why it wouldn't be..?
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This is a situation where you have to choose, either the guy or the girl. No one else can make this disition for you. People can help you, but YOU have to make it. Think of it this way, what if you went with the guy. Your best friend left you. Spred around the whole school what you did. No one wants to be your friend. Then the guy leaves you. YOU HAVE NO ONE. I know that if you like this guy its not going to be worth it. It will hurt you sooo much in the long run. Heres a better way to put it. WOuld YOU be mad if your best friend went with your ex? If you think no. YOur wrong. YOu knoowww you'd be pissed. I think that if your a true friend you'd choose your friend. Your friend wouldn't do that to you. So don't do it to her.
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Jesus christ, there definitely is one hell of a reason, and that reason is that if you do that, that is gonna be such a low act from you. Seriously girl, she's your best friend there, and that was her boyfriend and they were in love, and don't tell me that they broke up and that she's probably over him, cause thats just you trying desperately to find any right reason to make this work and to make you own the right to be with him, but you can't be with him.
Look ofcourse i don't mean to be rude or anyting, but i'm being honest there, cause i've been there and i've done that, with the best friend i ever had, and i too saw that going somewhere and i built all those reasons to make me go through that and i tried to ignore all those who told me to back out, but then the only somewhere i found myself going was a place where it was me and only me, after i lost my best friend and that stupid fool who i discovered afterwards, that it wasn't even true love, or at least even love that was worth throwing a friendship for, a real valuable one, and i guess that's enough reason to tell you why it wouldn't be.
And here's another piece of advice, if there is something about your life or about yourself or something that you want real bad but you know you can't have it, cause maybe its wrong or its a risk or its simply gonna cause you trouble, then simply don't even think about it, cause it ain't worth it.
Back out is my advice. Is he graduating too next week? I don't think you mentioned that , but hopefully he is, and gratefully, that should be your ticket to avoid him, and if your still gonna see him, its cool why not?? but friends is how your gonna act and limits your gonna define, because you don't want more than that, and thats what your gonna at least HINT around to him.
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