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I just don't know what to do anymore...
I hate these questions, but I'm so desperate and I don't have anyone to turn to.
Everything is just going downhill. Track is over, so I have nothing to do and no one to hang out with because my friends all have their own lives. My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl that I really don't think highly of, and I don't know if I should take him back or not. Everytime I see him, all I could think about is those two kissing, and how betrayed I feel. He wants to get back together and is trying, but at this time I cannot trust him. My sister keeps claiming I'm lazy because I am home, when really I just have nothing to do. I have finals coming up, plus I should be going to get my license sometime soon. My boss wants me to work a double job for three days in July, which I don't know if I could handle it. I really don't mean to complain, I just really need someone to vent to.
I need someone to tell me something, anything.
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Why don't you focus upon the positives in your life: you're getting your drving license, you're just about to finish school.
You've got the rest of your life to look forward. Don't dwell upon what was, there's nothing which no one can do about the past. What's happened has happened. Call your friends and see if they want to hang out somewhere; they may have their own lives, but that doesn't mean that you can't see each other every now and then.
Try and not see your ex. Think about what you want you want to do with him: you either go back out with him, or you can ignore him. He cheated on you, so in the end, it's your desicion as what to do with him. Take your time.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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just because track is over, doesn't mean you can't still run, because obviously you enjoy running.
if you pick up a new hobby, you can make new friends, so pick something you enjoy to do, now that you have time for something else.
DO NOT take your boyfriend back there is no way you could trust him, and you cannot have a relationship with someone without trust.
and;
take the three day job, you can make more money and it will give you something to do.
hope i helped.
if you need anything else, you can message me.
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i would never get back with someone who cheated on me unless i loved them. or maybe to get back at him. but thats terrible and you shouldn't do that. haha. anyway i know how you feel about the having nothing to do. maybe you could take a summer class or find something to do. run on your own or with a friend. and venting is definately good. you should hang out with your friends, its almost summer. read. see movies. find good music venues. and hang with the fam. even if it does sound ultra lame. it can be fun. :) <3 sara
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