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TORN!!!!
I have never been so confused in my life!!!!
I'm a 16/f and i was talking to a boy that went to my school...i will call him "R"! So yea i really liked him but now "R" is in jail and might be in there for some time...and recently i have been kinda talking to another boy i will call "N"! I like "N" and we flirt and kiss and we really get along great! As friends and as a couple! But there's a slight problem...he has a girlfriend!!!!! he doesn't claim her at all and they barely talk too! I don't want to be the woman on the side or a home-wrecker but im really into him and he seems to feel the same! And on top of everything i still got "R" on my mind! I don't know what to do!!!! please help!!!
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Make up your mind first. Choose one out of the two, either 'N' or 'R' and stick to it!
'N' may be a problem though because he has a girlfriend and the fact that he can't be loyal to her makes me think if he'll be loyal to you. SO tell him to pick one out of the two, you or his girlfriend, if he picks you then think first on what you'd like from him and etc.
'R' is in jail and he will only come out after some time, and as a girl I know, we need someone almost always. So try forget about 'R' and focus on 'N', that is IF he picks you. If he doesn't than he was never worth you and you shouldn't waste your time with him.
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I say let "R" be, if he's in jail you shouldn't be with him, your 16 and from what I can tell "N" is the guy for you.
For starters, You like N, i mean seriously if you kiss and all! and come one he has a girlfriend?
You need to set him straight tell him you don't wanna be the other women,and that you LIKE HIM> but to dump that other girl so you two can be together!
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You're too young to be worried about some boy that is in jail. Move on. I would leave "N" alone until he mans up enough to come to you a single and free man. It doesn't matter what he claims--it's the fact that he isn't free to be pursuing you if he has a girlfriend. Put yourself in her shoes, would you like it if your boyfriend "didn't claim" you to others and was kissing on some other girl?
You don't know what he is telling her about how he feels for her. It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Find a boy that is free to be with you and doesn't have to "claim" or not claim anyone else.
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