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i have a problem with my gf, she doesnt like being on top or the bottom when we make out so what the hell am i suppose to do
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Just talk to her about it. Maybe she's afraid it will lead to sex and she doesn't want to have sex. Ask her what her intentions are and what she feels comfortable with. Maybe you're being too aggressive with her, and she wants you to slow down. Or maybe she doesn't like your technique of making out. Maybe she just needs to feel more in control of the situation. You could always try sitting up or standing or having her sit on a counter. Basically, you just need to talk to her. It may be that she isn't talking to you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and is afraid if she says anything negative you will break up with her. Reassure her that this is not the case. Help her trust you enough to tell you what she wants.
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Perhaps a bit of a tease will make her more at ease :] wow i'm corny sorry. Maybe she just feels uncomfortable with kissing. Try talking to her. And like i said at first, tease her a little bit, she'll want it so bad that she won't even care what position you're in. Maybe she prefers sitting up and kissing, she might thing that someone on-top of the other might lead to other things, tell her your intentions if you don't want it to lead anywhere else and she might be more comfortable.
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