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okay, uhm. i'm in love with my best friend.


Question Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 9:05 pm

f/13.
i'm in love withe my best friend.
and she's in love with me.
but the thing is, i'm moving soon.
and she has a boyfriend.
her boyfriend is cool with it, because he and i are great friends.
he wants to see me and her make out.
and we're going to.
but what should i do.
i don't wanna let her go.
but i have to.
i'll still talk to her.
but i really don't know.


what should i do.

please help.
<3 Destiny


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pseudophun answered Thursday May 29 2008, 8:15 pm:
You're moving soon. There will be no chance for a relationship after that, trust me those never work.
Do NOT trust the BF being okay with all this, btw, because that typically backfires too... like a baby that swallowed TNT, this will get bloody if things progress too far.
My best advice, is to enjoy what time you ahve with her. From there, you'll have to make it work how it will and forget everything else. Moving is hard to deal with when you're in love, but that's why you have to make the best of what you have in meantime.

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babykiwi1 answered Thursday May 29 2008, 9:46 am:
first hon i dont see how a guy can be cool with another guy being in love and wanting to be with his girl. i think something is going down. i think that you got past the rocky part the boyfriend knows about your love for her. if she want to be with you and you want to be with her then make it happen. no amount of distance can make you to stop loving eachother.

no on the other hand this guy is a little to accepting about this. he knows you are moving away and see it ass well ill let him get this off and when he moves she will still be my girl. you should be carfull with the cards you throw on the table i dont want you to get hurt.


if she loves you she will let her boyfriend go and say no she dont want him to watch you to make out thats you all buisness not his.

hope i helped

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TheKindlyOne answered Thursday May 29 2008, 3:00 am:
Umm.... okay..... Let me just absorb this a bit before I answer.

I think that the hard part is over. Your friend knows you love her. She loves you too. Keep in touch and just see what happens.

I however must stress caution with the boyfriend angle. Honestly, I don't see how a guy like that can be cool with his girlfriend being in love with a girl. While all guys want a threesome with two girls, they want to be the focus of love.

Seriously, be careful in that regard. I sense a set-up. Take care.

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