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My best friends Girlfriend.
Steven is like by best friend and yes he is a guy. No I am not dating him but he's so much more trustworthy then some of the girl-friends I have. Well he is dating a girl named Melissa and she's CRAZY! She gives me deat stare whenever I talk to Steven, and aoids talking to me. Not that Im rushing to be her friend. And then today I accidentailly bumped into her apoligised and she was like "What is your problem?! I know you love my boyfriend but he's mine!" I was like woah now simmer down...
She's really starting to scare me but Steven really likes her and I dont wanna do anything to hurt him but jeez Melissas gunna like shoot me or something!
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well sweety i think that first of all you should talk to your freind. you have been his freind longer than her and you should tell him whats going on because if not she will keep on. if he appreciates your freindship with him then he wont mind talking to his gf and setting her straight.
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Okay, i would talk to both her and Steven. You need to tell her that hes your friend nothing more. you need to tell him about this and if he freaks out about it then...whatever...you tried. But if shes going to think that then don't worry about it. Don't listen to her. Just because your best friend has a girlfriend doesn't mean that you guys have to stop tlaking or hanging out.
Your friends...nothing more. and if she doesn't think so..then what are you going to do? you can't do anything you can't force people to think things if they don't want to think it.
But the person before me is right, you shold --if happening-- tone down the flirting. and just act like old times but if there was or is flirting going on between you to...even if its just playful. it needs to stop. if hes really your best friend and you care about what he feels then you're not going to try and brake up him and the person he likes.
hope i helped and if you have anymore questions just drop it in my inbox
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Are you interested in Steven?
Cause if you are, maybe she has geuninely noticed and you should tone down your chummy behavoir with him.
If not, talk to Steven. You are his best friend after all, he probably doesn't want his girlfriend to hate you. It's his job to explain to her and make sure thier relationship is stable. It's also his job to change the way he interacts with you if he decides too.
If she gets catty with you agian, gently tell her that if she has a problem with your friendship with Steven she should talk with him about it, because you haven't done anything wrong and have nothing by friendship for him.
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