Member Since: May 6, 2008
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Last Update: May 30, 2008
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16/f/sophomore
im trying to make friends this year but it's so hard! i dont have a "best friend", a person who i think is the coolest person to hang out with ever and who thinks the same about me, like other girls & guys with my grade. thats bc i used to be really shy but now im pretty much over shyness and i want to be social.
i know i should be nice & talkative but i feel like its HARD because i dont want to become one of those people who are so OBVIOUSLY trying to be friends with someone else and spend all their time talking to them when that person doesnt like them. also it seems like veryone already has their own best friends, a crew that they can hang out with at ANYTIME. while i have friends in 5 groups and out of 10 years only 5 of my friends have come over to my house, and i can count the number of times they have come over on my hands. and i never get invited ANYWHERE..to the beach...to parties (maybe once every 6 months)..just to HANG OUT..im always at home on saturdays and im too embarassed to admit it to anyone. =[
keep in mind my family is kind of hard up right now money-wise so i cant just throw parties.
I KNOW im NOT a boring person and i KNOW im not annoying compared to other people i know and i KNOW im not like a social outcast who nobody talks to, i have a lot of friends, a few good, long-time friends who are in their own groups, but no BEST friends. i guess i just need advice on how to make friends. anything youve got. (link)
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hey ok since i have always been one of the popular guys that everyone knows i have met alot of shy people and i never make them feel like an outcast unfortunatly not eveyone is like that so just be yourself because you were shy not many people might have noticed you but you know youre cool you dont have to force yourself to fit in because theirs no need for that . join programs,in school , sit down with diffrerent people and be yourself
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Steven is like by best friend and yes he is a guy. No I am not dating him but he's so much more trustworthy then some of the girl-friends I have. Well he is dating a girl named Melissa and she's CRAZY! She gives me deat stare whenever I talk to Steven, and aoids talking to me. Not that Im rushing to be her friend. And then today I accidentailly bumped into her apoligised and she was like "What is your problem?! I know you love my boyfriend but he's mine!" I was like woah now simmer down...
She's really starting to scare me but Steven really likes her and I dont wanna do anything to hurt him but jeez Melissas gunna like shoot me or something! (link)
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well sweety i think that first of all you should talk to your freind. you have been his freind longer than her and you should tell him whats going on because if not she will keep on. if he appreciates your freindship with him then he wont mind talking to his gf and setting her straight.
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Okay so I'm trying to lose weight, and I weighed myself Sunday when I started and weighed 120. To start the diet I drank lost of water and worked out, then today (Wednesday), I weighed myself at 130!
So whats wrong with me?!?
How could I gain 10 lbs. In a day only drinking water and working out?
Is it water weight?
Do you have any good ab excersizes?
Thanks :)
14/f (link)
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i think that first of all you should realize that you are still 14 and if you're tall enough then its okay weighing 120 and feeling comferatable with yourself. i mean honestly do you think your'e fat , do your freinds consider you fat? being comferatable with yourself should be your main focus right now, ofcourse eat healthy but dont over do it.
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ok so me and my friend are reallly close ill tell her everything. but she wants me to do her a huge favor she wants me to date her ex because he likes her but she doesnt like him. i mean hes cute but idk if i want to date him because idk how do i tell her i dont want to do this. (link)
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i think that you shouldnt do her the favor just because if u really admire this freindship you would know better than to even think of doing this. you're smarter and even if she'll be dissapointed in the long run it'll be worth it
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