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Age: 21
Member Since: May 5, 2008
Answers: 9
Last Update: May 8, 2008
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okay so this may be long but i really need some help...

okay so my little brother was telling me i should date tyler. Now i have never met this boy before in my life. But i have a cousin who is like a sister to me and he is her half brother on her dads side and i am not related to her dad. So we aint related. And i asked her about it and she said she dont know because she never sees him.

SO austin said oh well he is my homie and we are really good friends. Then i started to develop a crush on him as i seen a picture. Well my brother then went and said "well we aint homies we are just friends." and i said "ok".

Then the next day he said "i found out why tyler didnt give you his number" and i said "why" and he said because he has a gf." and i said "ok so".

Well he kept asking if i was sad and i kept saying no because it wasnt like we was dating. i wasnt upset. And it was weird. lol. he was telling me that tyler told austin he was cheating on his gf and that he was a player and he didnt want me to date him. and it just got really confusing because i didnt know if he didnt want me to date his friend (which sounds like him) or he was being serious...

and even if i were to date him it would be for a few weeks during summer then it would be over as i would be leaving indiana. And he lives 2 minutes away from me--on foot. But i dont know, what does it sound like to you?? I know if he has a gf not to mess with him because its bad, im not that way. So please dont put anything about that, i just need help on what to do ASAP...thanks (link)
well this was a little confusing but i will try my best. okay it sounds like he might be a player but he might not i am just not sure. i think i would need 2 know more about him. But then again your brother may not want you to be dating a friend. my suggestion is that you wait i'd say a week or 2 and be flirty with this guy you like and talk to him and everything. If it seems like he is interested then casually ask him if hes dating. if he says no then i say go for him, BUT be carefull of your brother. i have a brother to and this can be a fragile situation for them. i would say talk to your brother one on one and tell him whats up. tell him you aren't try to steal his friend but you like him and reasure him that he will still have his time to do guy stuff with the guy u like, without you being around. i say go for it if you want cuz if you never try you will never know. trying is deffinately worth it. i hope this helped!
=)Laarel


wHAT Are they? and like what do you do and what does it mean if you've been to...name base....


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they r also called the four f's.
1.french (kissing with tongue)
2.feel (feel someone up you kno private parts.)
3.finger(this refers to girl in which i guy puts 2 or 3 fingers into a womans vagina. 3rd for guy would be hand job or blow job. hand job is just playing around with a guys dick while making out and a blow job is making out with his dick while he may or may not ejaculate.)
4.fuck(having sex)

if you've been to a base, u have done this.
hope i helped=)


Okay, so me and me new bf just started going out, and i was wondering, when is it to soon to kiss him? (link)
any time you want. i made out with mine the first day and it was no big deal. as long as u both want it then go and get it!


i know this may sound disturbing but my bf said that i gave him a boner and next time i should something about it..what does he mean and how? lol (link)
okay. a boner is when they(a guy) gets really happy and there penis "spring" ino life. they get full and hard except at the tip. wen he says he wants u to do something about it, that probably means hand job, blow job, or sex. go slow and don't do anything u dont want to do. Good luck=)


me and my boyfriend only just make-out and french. we are always open to try new things but we dont know what to try. any ideas?
all are welcome =] thx! (link)
well you can try using pop rocks while making out. those are always fun and passin a piece of gum and like blowing bubbles. thsoe r fun


14/M

Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date? (link)
no it is perfectly fine! i made out with my bf on the first date. which also was hte day he asked me out! go for it!


dirty sanchez?

cuz i tried looking it up on the internet and porn popped up

and i dont reealy want to see that
sooo yea
=]]
help? (link)
you can go to www.urbandictionary.com
it has all those answers


i need song feel-good, sing-to-in-the-car, fun songs for a summer playlist. they don't have to be recent songs, nor do they have to be any certain genre (although i don't think many hardcore or metal songs can be classified as "feel good" or "fun", haha). i'll provide some examples that already made the list:

- "all i wanna do (is have some fun)" by sheryl crow
- "big yellow taxi" by counting crows
- "pocketful of sunshine" by natasha bedingfield
- "four minutes" by madonna ft. justin timberlake
- "boys of summer" version by the ataris

so yeah, you catch my drift. help me out (: (link)
i sugest any songs by the band boys like girls. they are really great and upbeat songs. perfect for a summer playlist.
enjoy!


13/f 7th grade

all my friends are starting to "date". they go downtown or to the strip mall or to each others houses and have these group "dates" with their "boyfriends" but my mom doesnt let me go because she doesnt think im old enough. I just like the boys as friends even though i have been on 1 "date" myself I like the kid I went with as a good friend. but people are starting to ditch friends for boys and go out all the time and tell each other they love each other and thinking about kissing so I was wondering what age ae kids supposed to date? is my school ahead of other people? and my mom wont let me go anywhere with boys so how can i convince her most boys are never going to be more than friends to me even when im older and certianly not now? (link)
hi. I'm in the ninth grade and i didn't start dating until the eighth. it's really mostly about if you are read or not. you are 13 and that is wen i first got into that stuff. Explain to your mom that you are just friends with these boys and try to show her you are responsible. It is all based on you and the person you are going to date if you are ready for it. Your friends are only ditching eachother for boys because they r excited that they have hteir boyfriends. don't be worried this will most likely pass becasue they will realize that boys will ocme and go but your friends will always be there. Your mom right now is probably liek my mom and is affriad of you growing apart from her. reasure her that u will still always have that mom and daughter show but u also need to be social. I hope this all works out for you.
best of luck
=)




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