okay this is kinda random but what would you do if you and you and your best friend had a big fight and you were the one that caused it and it was all your fault and you new that your friend had depression problems and that she cut herself and stuff and you were really mean to her and a couple days later she killed herself and left a suicide note for you saying you were the one that made her kill herself. there are no wrong answers i just really wanna no what yall think. thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? kittaytoro answered Thursday May 29 2008, 3:46 pm: I really hope you're not in this situation! Email or something if that's the case, I'd be compeltly willing to talk.
But I'd honestly probably feel guilty for the rest of my life. Assuming I was strong enough to get over it, I'd still be depressed, and get upset about it from time to time.
I'd also realize however, that no one TOLD her to kill herself, and that she should have known that there were people to talk to. Suicide is a choice, not an answer. I'd probably feel a tad resentful toward the friend, along with the guilt..
karenR answered Wednesday May 28 2008, 11:37 am: I think you would feel guilty for the
rest of your life. Not that it would
be your fault. A person has problems
beyond just arguing with a friend if
they are depressed enough to kill
themselves. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
MAK answered Wednesday May 28 2008, 3:19 am: I think whether it was my best friend or not, I would become horribly depressed, become very careful with what I say and do. Honestly I think I would die inside. Then I most likely will pass through a phase of self-medication, probably alcohol or the computer, and then I would try to move on and forget about it because it was already done and I should move on with my own life. I would probably convince myself that she already had depression problems that weren't cause by me, it was just our fight that pushed her over the edge. I would also stay away from her family and her close friends because I probably wouldn't be able to look them in the eye.
Gosh, I hope you aren't in this situation, and if you are or gosh forbid will be, I hope that you would deal with it better than I would and seek therapy.
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