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Graduating Seniors..
I'm 15/Freshman/Female, my really good friend is 17, and he's a senior and is graduatiing in about a month. We both know there is sexual tension between us, but I think we are both trying to ignore it beacuse he has to go away in the fall for school. He's actually only about an hour away but still he'll be in college and I'll be a softmore..
Have any of you been in this situation?
Is it better to just ignore it , and stay friends?
Should I even bother?
..Help.
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Oi.
Stay friends.
Why?
1) He is constantly going to be around girls more mature than you are. I'm sorry, but its true, they've just got age on you.
2) You don't want to chain yourself to a guy whos in college, who isnt in your circles anymore, who has reason 1 on his plate.
3) If you like him, stay friends. If you stay friends for a while, maybe you'll go to college too, maybe near him. Maybe when you're a freshman in college have that "I'm not jailbait anymore (barely)" appeal sparks will fly again.
Basically, its not a good idea to latch yourself onto someone who will be gone in 4 months. Seeing him a few weekends a month, not reccomended.
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Do not let sexuality be your guide! The most important thing is making sure you have more than sexuality between you. I know that on TV they make it seem like sex is nothing, and things like ditance and age don't matter.
We live in the real world.
How are you going to feel if the two of you have one romantic night and he just up and leaves? Trust me it's not a good feeling, I've been there.
He didn't love me, and though he still talks to me every now in then the only thing on his mind is 'hooking up.'
If you really like this guy see how far the friendship takes you, but if he's in a rush to have sex, he's in it for the wrong reasons.
Take things slow if the connection is real, he'll be back.
Just know that having sex with a guy doesn't make him yours!
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