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there is this girl that my boyfriends sister hangs out with and she tried getting with my boyfriend, and now shes saying that he likes her and im really about to beat the living crap out of her. I'm about to reach my breaking point and i cant hold back when i reach my breaking point. please help me, give me advice because she always tries to piss me off and it works. & she wants to go to my boyfriends bday party on saturday with his sister & his sister doesnt live with him so its not her house.. and if this girl shows up at his party im going to fight her!
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The first thing you have to do is calm down. You remind me a lot of my little sister. You're territorial, and hot-headed. Don't get me wrong, those arn't bad traits when they're kept in check!
Take a step back and look at the situation as an outsider. The question isn't does she want your boyfriend, it's does your boyfriend want her?
If it's one sided then just play it cool at the party, and if she gets a little to close, then calmly but firmly make your stand. Tell her that if she can't respect your relationship than she isn't welcome there.
On the otherhand if it looks like he's enjoying the extra attention, approach him. Don't do it at the party, and don't be to quick to accuse him of anything. Just calmly ask him what he thinks of her. If he's not really into her, then he'll feel good that care enough to get jealous.
But if it seems like he's really into her, get rid of him before he hurts you.
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Ok what you need to do is calm down. It's exactly what she wants, to piss you off. She probably either wants you to get so pissed you break up with your boyfriend and he's all hers or you to throw a punch and then she can play all innocent and cry into his arms like your the big baddie. You lose either way. Try your best not to let her get to you. Clench your teeth and breath in and out counting back from ten to calm down. Another thing would be to tell your boyfriend she's doing this. Try and tell him how much it bothers you. The thing is, if he really cares he'll prove it by taking action.
Hope i helped and good luck.
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