okay. so i want to give my boyfriend a blowjob. but im scared to get an STD. but theres only been one girl he's been "with" and thats one of my bestfriends. they used to go out. but i know for a fact that shes clean & has been tested because she has only been "with" him to. can i be sure he still doesnt have an STD even though i know for a fact my bestfriends been tested?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? LM answered Thursday May 22 2008, 9:34 pm: There's a very slim chance, more likely than not you'll be totally fine.
To be safe, use a condom.
Oh, and don't brush your teeth or floss or anything like that immediately before or afterwards. It creates tiny cuts that can spread an infection more easily, if he DID have one (or you, for that matter. Herpes and I'm pretty sure a couple other things can be spread like that).
Plus, it'd ruin the moment to jump up and go brush your teeth. If the taste bugs you have a drink nearby. We can't go into any more detail though because there's underage users. Including me =P
sin_c_chic answered Thursday May 22 2008, 6:14 pm: I'll keep this short and simple. You can NEVER be sure about anyone except yourself (and only then if you've been tested). It's amazing that you are so aware of the things that could happen. How long have you and your boyfriend been going out? Long enough for you to be comfortable asking him to get tested? If not than it is up to you to decide whether or not it is worth the risk (no matter how slim the chances may be). Good luck babe and please continue to be as conscious about these things as you are now. That's VERY responsible.
killerface answered Thursday May 22 2008, 6:11 pm: Chances are if he's only been with one girl, and they were both clean at the time, then he's still clean.
But, if you're so paranoid, have him wear a condom. They come in all kinds of flavors and colors. [: [ killerface's advice column | Ask killerface A Question ]
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