so im 17 yrs old about to turn 18 and my boyfriend is 18 as well. we've been dating for 7 months and were so in love. we have sex a lot but i wanna spice it up a little bit. he told me he wants me to be more aggressive but i dont know what i could do? any ideas? thx <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? killerface answered Thursday May 22 2008, 6:07 pm: Haha, being aggressive is easy. [: (Don't do it at a bad time when he can't react properly) When you want to kiss him, shove him (gently now, you don't want to abuse the boy, but still forcefully enough that he's where you want him) up against a wall, pull his head down to your face, and kiss him. Don't wait for him to come to you. When you want to have sex, whisper it into his ear. Not like a little girl whispering a secret or anything, make your voice low and sexy. When you have sex, initiate it. Be on top. Try new positions. Guide his hands where you want them, even when he knows where to go.
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