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vacation
So my mom said I could bring a friend on vacation to north carolina this year. So obviously I wanted to bring my best friend jenna. Jenna is a huge softball player and somehow there was some miscommunication or something and we weren’t positive when her nationals were but I thought that they were the same week I was gone. So we never really talked about it after that, so I asked another friend of mine taylor. Taylor and I are not as good of as friends as jess and I but were pretty good friends. So in gym today I happened to mention to jenna the date of her nationals and shes like no they arent that week and I was like you told me they were and then we got in a fight about it and how I should have waited to ask taylor to come with me. I really want jenna with me because I know her and I will always be best friends but taylor and I arent close and I don’t think we will. I want to look back years from now and have memories with jenna. Im really upset about this. The only thing I can think of doing…its really mean but idk. Taylor has a big party the day before we leave, and she couldn’t miss it, all of her family comes from Canada and stuff so its huge. I could always say that my mom got an email from the owner of the house we are staying in down there and say that we have to leave Saturday(the day of the party) and she wouldn’t know that we were leaving the next morning. I know its mean but idk what else.
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You made an innocent mistake by not double-checking with Jenna. She shouldn't be fighting with you over that. Sure she may be upset, but it was just a an innocent mistake.
It would be a deliberate and nasty mistake to lie to Jenna.
I don't suggest it or condone it. It's not the behavoir of an ethical and kind person, but as with all things, make the choice you can live with.
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dont use that lie. too many ways it can blow up in your face, what if tayolor really wants to go, and ends up convincing her parents to let her? does she know about the fact you asked her because jenna couldnt go? if so, you can always tell them to decide between themselves who deserves to go more.
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