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keeeps hanging on?
okay hey guys so i just wanted someone else’s opinion on this.
last year I went out with my ex boyfriend for about a year and then last September he all of the sudden broke up with me telling me he had no more feelings they changed. We had a great relationship and nothing was going wrong at all and he always told me no matter what he was always going to love me. Ever since the whole break up I haven’t spoken to him unless I had to because of school or something related to school.
I have music class with my ex and he’s always looking at me or talking really loud so I can hear things about his band and always making out with his girlfriend of the week in front of me and he’s always playing the songs he wrote for me in music class. Keep in mind I don’t ever talk to him and I sit and mind my own business in the back of the room.
I really don’t understand it. Every other girlfriend and boyfriend break up and either they talk or they don’t. this has been about 9 or 10 months now that we haven’t been together and I feel like it just doesn’t end I feel like there’s still something there.
Thanks so much I just wanted to know someone’s opinion on this whole thing
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It sounds like there's something there. I think you should sit down and have a talk with him. About what you want and what he wants settle it once and for all.
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I think that he is trying to make you feel bad and jealous, he may have really liked you and regret breaking up with you, so he is trying to make you miss him so maybe you will try to talk to him and get back with him. Or he may simply be playing games with you and trying to be a jerk about it. I think your best bet is to just keep on ignoring him, don't let him have the satisfaction of seeing you hurting. Stand your ground and just let him play alone. Sooner or later he will get bored and move on, hopefully.
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I think that he is playing childish games with you, trying to make you jealous. He is in need of attention. But get this, the attention needed is not only from you, it is from women which is why he changes girlfriends so frequently! He isn't happy with any of them and so he continues bouncing from chic to chic trying to find what he had with you. Silly isn't it?
Continue your studies & music as you are doing. Continue ignoring him, as you have been doing and you will be fine. I promise! I am not sure of what you feel is still there, but I wouldn't concentrate on it; however, I would concentrate on WHY it's still there rather than what it is that's still there.
He is confused and lost! He has contradicted himself - If he told you that he will always love you, then how is it that all of a sudden his feelings changed? He was confused when he said that. He was confused when he broke up with you and he is still confused now. Do you, and let him continue doing him - watch and see who goes farther and who ends up happy without confusion at all. Good Luck!
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He's use to being the center of your world and he is a juvenile, so how would you expect him to act. He doesn't know how to get rid of the feelings he still has for you and doesn't realize he probably never will. You never forget your loves and you will always remember the feelings they gave you.
My first love was a girl who never returned it, Jackie. I tried and tried to get her to go out with me, I guess today she would have charged me with stalking her, I tried so much. But, I can tell you from experience, even unrequited love never goes away, for I still love her to this day. I have been married to a wonderful lady for almost 30 years, but I still know the love I had for Jackie, I would just never act on it, because the love I have for my wife is much stronger then any love I have ever felt.
The strength is not in the love it's self, because there is but one degree of love, yet many degrees of like. The strength is in the people and wanting to be with them and the degree of which you like them. (That's why it is so important to be friends with your life partner).
So you see, he never fell out of love with you, he just didn't like you to the degree he use to. I'm sure that doesn't make you feel any better. It's confusing when you don't understand it and the big galoot is confused as hell.
Hang in there, sooner or later he'll come to grips with it and it will stop.
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