ok welll heres the thing i use to like this kid named anthony untill he started going out with my friend alex... then i had to get over him, and i did. buttttttt anthony nd i are really close like we can talk bout anythin and everythin w/o judgement. now i've been having family problems and i go to him for advice and he consoles he n shi#. so when i'm talkin to him but it n shes comes around i jus stop. she thinks i'm tryin to get wit him, but i like another guy and girl.(im bisexual)so should i save my relationship wit the girl who i'm friends wit but wouldn't normally talk to nd stop talking to the guy whos like my older brother or keep talkin 2 the guy nd tell her to go fuc herself?
You should feel comfortable talking to this Anthony whenever you want to. Don't let your Alex get in the way of your bond with him,especially since he's been taking care of your through your difficult times.
My advice, is that you save them both-- which yes, is possible. Just make it clear to Alex that you've found a good friend and that your interests have changed to these other 2 people.
You should never have to keep one friend by deleting another..ever.
labella1400 answered Wednesday May 21 2008, 8:51 pm: i honestly would explain to her how it really is. If she doesn't understand then continue talking to this guy. I see it as you should never have to choose between two friends. Tell her that he understands you and that you two talk about deep things that you have confided in eachother with. Tell this girl that you would (will) be honest if feelings for him return to the way they used to be.
AskKay23 answered Wednesday May 21 2008, 1:00 am: You shouldn't feel pressured to chose between these two friends. If they make you feel that you need to, then you'll know right away if there friendship is real.
You should feel comfortable talking to this Anthony whenever you want to. Don't let your Alex get in the way of your bond with him,especially since he's been taking care of your through your difficult times.
My advice, is that you save them both-- which yes, is possible. Just make it clear to Alex that you've found a good friend and that your interests have changed to these other 2 people.
You should never have to keep one friend by deleting another..ever.
mamisosexy03 answered Tuesday May 20 2008, 10:27 pm: oh dear....jeje
uh well i think you shudnt throw any of them anywhere how bout you try to talk to them about the situation nd if she dont like wat you got to say then you shud tell her to fuq herself nd talk to him im sure they'll understand where you're comin from.... [ mamisosexy03's advice column | Ask mamisosexy03 A Question ]
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