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my girl friend
okay, I'm 13 and I might actually be "in love" with my girl friend.
The only thing is we hug ALOT but I havnt kissed her yet! Please help me boost my conifidence.
and the last time she gave me a BIG hug I got a boner and I think she felt it, what should I do?
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well im 14 and i was with this guy and he walked me to the bus for a basketball game and i was about to leave and i hugged him goodbye and he kissed me but i wasnt expecting it and we were kissing for a long time and it wasnt planned so you dont need to plan to kiss your girlfriend just let it happen when you feel it is the PERFECT time and you and her are the only one to know that. about the boner forget about it, let her forget about it because if she didnt feel it dont let her know that you had one.and if she felt it then she will forget about it all it tells is that you like her ALOT
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First of all
Your 13... My first kiss wasnt till i was 14 and a half.
Secondly, chill out! Because worrying about this boner wont get you anywhere.
Also dont try and force youself to kiss, the best kisses are when the time and mood is right. Not just a first kiss on the street by the corner shop. If you get what im saying.
But if you realy are haing trouble, the besy way is to talk to her about it.
Send me a question if you want tips on styles of kissing and what not.
Good Luck!
Vikki
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If you want to have your first kiss with her, make it one to remember :) (assuming you are BOTH ready).
Go out somewhere on the day you plan to kiss her. You can either kiss her at the location, or save it for when you're home, as an ending to your day.
What you shouldn't do is just ram your tongue in her mouth. For a first kiss, just make sure your lips touch hers and give a normal kiss with closed mouths. From here, you will know if you should use tongues.
Remember, there is no set time to kiss. Some people wait months before they feel ready to kiss, whereas others can do it fine on the first date.
Why don't you talk to her about it? Or tell her you want to kiss her in a txt message or something. That's always a cute thing to do and by her response, you will know if she's ready.
Good luck with it all!
As for the boner, it's natural. Don't worry.
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