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i like my ex who likes my friend
ive known this guy for almost 3 years and we were in junior high when we met but we are now in high school and we have been off and on since the first week i met him we got together after knowing him for 1 week. before that he was with my friend but she used him. every time i see him it feels like my heart is popping out of my chest and i dont know what to do. he likes my friend that used him 3 years ago and she likes him back and they always flirt and i cant stand to watch him do it...what should i do?
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Well he learnt not to mess with her last time after she used him. but if he's stupid enough to do it again let him. Let him make his own mistakes because he'll soon come to realise that she's not worth it. If you told him not to go out with her, he will only see it as you being jealous and being up in his buisness. Leave him to be a taught a lesson. Accept he isn't to you at the moment, just be there for him as good friend when he falls and she doesn't catch him.
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It sounds to me that this guy wants to have the best of both of girls. I've been in a situation similar to this, and unfortunately there's nothing that you can do that isn't going to take some work.
If you really like this guy and want answers, you're only going to get them by asking him straight up what his interests are. Don't let him sound like this victim, by saying that your friend was using him--because that's no excuse for a guy who still flirts with her anyway.
Either way, from what I read, it sounds like he's a bit of a jerk. Therefore, if your heart is really going nuts when you see him, enough to make you still want him, then tell him.
In the mean time, look around you and see what other guys are good or even better for you. Because even if you don't find something better, this other guy will see that your not hung up on him, and possibly try harder.
Good luck!
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Stop watching?
There really isn't anything you can do about the fact they like eachother. You can't change either of thier minds.
If YOU want something to happen with this guy, you need to step up and let him know that. If you want a boyfriend, let him know. Invite him out. Hang out with him. Listen to what he says. Flirt with him. Be interested in the person he is.
You can't force anybody to like you, or to not like somebody else, but you got to be honest with him or else you'll never know what could have been.
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