Hi there, I'm a senior in high school and I'm about to make the first big decision ever, where I want to go to college. I live in San Antonio, Texas and I got accepted to UTSA (in San Antonio) and ASU (in San Angelo about 3 hours away).
I have a scholarship (2,000) to ASU and I have no scholarship at UTSA, but I'm afraid to move 3 hours away from my parents. I'm really stuck between these two choices and I have to make up my mind soon.
So, with that being said.. if you could choose, would you go to UTSA and live with your parents? Or, would you go to ASU and be three hours away from your parents?
Have you visited both school's campuses? That's a really important thing when choosing a college, especially if you're going to live there. Also, look at how big the schools are. Would you rather be in a huge lecture class, or in smaller classes where you can talk to the teacher? Smaller classes are ideal if you need a lot of help.
Also take into consideration what you are studying. Who has a better or more prestigious program?
I can see that you have a close relationship with your parents, which is great. But do understand that aside from education, living away at college is a social experience. This is the only time where you get to live with lots of people your age, and be slowly introduced into the real world. You are exposed to tons of different people and have the opportunity to live on your own. If you live at home, you will be missing out on a lot, and probably won't meet as many people.
Then again, living at home saves a lot of money. The people I know who commute are people who don't really have a choice, because they have a lot of financial trouble. They most likely are working while in school.
If I were you, I'd take the scholarship and go to ASU. You can still see your parents every break or holiday.
Maybe you should write out a list of Pro's and Con's for each school, and rate how much each priority is.
plume answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 3:21 am: i agree w/ainne, do you really need that scholarship, and which campus do you feel more at home?
if still you're unsure, consider what your future major will be and which campus offers a better program. if it's still a tie, or depending on your priorities, i think it's a good idea to stay at home if you're close to your family. b/c you're still young and it's good to remain in that comfort zone you've grown up in, it's a good buffer when you enter the college world. it's really good your considering the distance apart from your family, but don't beat yourself to it. 3 hours isn't that far, nor is it close but don't let that stop you from enjoying it if ASU is your first choice. hope i was any help, and good luck, those are really good schools!! [ plume's advice column | Ask plume A Question ]
TheAnnie answered Monday April 28 2008, 11:55 pm: Well, first of all, do you need that scolarship badely? Like would it help you out alot or would it not matter? If that scholorship does help, then choose that.
Also, look at the surroundings before you choose. Do you love the location? Which school will help you in your future.
This is a decision only you can really make based on your preferences. I wish i could help, but this is something that only you can decide.
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