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Prom
Hi there.
Prom is on Saturday and I'm going in a limo with about 5 other couples and my single friend is coming with us too. She doesn't know anyone in the limo and neither do I, so I feel comfortable her coming. She's not like a really good friend of mine, I've only known her a few weeks.
Anyways, my boyfriend and her have been texting about prom just talking about what we're going to be doing and stuff. When I was looking on his phone I saw that he texted her saying, "What kind of dress are you going to get, I bet you're going to look real pretty!" and "I wouldn't mine escorting two FINE ass ladies to prom." He's MY boyfriend. Is that okay that he's talking to her like that? Because in my eyes it's not when I don't really know her that well.
Thanks.
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He could have been kidding around. Don't think too much about it until you actually see signs of him flirting with her (or getting bored with you). It's only a limo ride; once you're there, she'll probably split up from you both. Don't forget, you weren't supposed to be looking at his private messages in the first place..
Anyway, just focus on having fun!
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Personally, I don't think that's okay at all. Flirting can lead to other things...
Regardless of how well you know her, it's still not okay. You should bring it up to him. If he gets upset at you, that's not a good sign. What he should do is apologize, but if he doesn't, you should question how much you should trust him.
I just think what he did is really shady, like he's trying to get another girl on the side.
Don't completely lose faith in him, but DO keep your eyes open and watch him.
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If it makes you uncomfortable and you don't like the way he is talking to a girl, then no it is not okay for him to be acting that way. It really all depends on you and how you feel about his actions. If you don't like them then you should probably let him know that you don't appreciate him talking and flirting with other girls like that. I totally agree with you though and I wouldn't like my boyfriend talking to a girl like that.
Hope I Helped.
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Just keep an eye on it. It might not be anything, so don't be the stalker gf lol, just watch out and if anything comes up, ask him about it. The most important thing in a relationship is communication, so if you're really curious, just ask him :] Goodluck
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