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My ex
Okay so I was with this guy name well lets call him charles and well we were together for three years from 6th grade till 8th grade and he was my first love...well he caused me alot of drama when ever we would break up and I have even been in a huge fight because of him but evertime we fight we still end up talking again now he is the first guy I ever did anything sexual with so me and him always have that little dirty thing between us well its been like a year since we talked and he saw my mom in the store and decided to call me well now we have been talking for like 2 weeks and Im happy but my mom dosent know about it cause she really dosent want us talking...well he has a girlfriend and I told him I had a bf when i really dont well I just want you opinon cause I kind of want to have sex with him but IDK what I should do
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What you guys shared was probably really special at one time but if he wanted to have sex with you he would break up with her to be with you. Odviously he's moved on and you should to. I'm sure after you get out there and meet some new people you'll be over him completely. I'm sorry I didn't give you the advice you were looking for but I think it would be wrong for him to cheat on his NOW girlfriend.
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Well first of all he has a girlfriend and I don't really think it's right to break them up just because you want to have sex with him. I think you should tell him that he has a girlfriend and to get back to you when he doesn't. After that look into dating someone new, you probably won't be able get over him unless you start trying now.
It would also be hard to date someone if your mother is against it, she is just trying to avoid you getting hurt again. I think you should be friends with your ex and then find you a boy that doesn't have a girlfriend and will treat you great and that loves you. You deserve better than an ex that you simply miss your sexual times with. You are always going to love him and have a connection with him because of the fact that he was your first love and your first a few other things, but you are going to have to get over that and move on with your life[[sorry to be blunt]]. I really hope you make a good decision.
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My opinion is that you knew him. He knew you. You did lie when you said that you had a BF but that isn't what I'm getting at. He has a GF and he shouldn't (want to) cheat on her. I can't tell you much on the sex thing, since I can't tell you if you should or shouldn't. It's never a positive thing to give something that special to someone unless you love them and they love you and you plan on standing for any consequences. You don't know each other anymore. It's been a year since you talked, and even though you've been talking for 2 weeks, it doesn't mean you know each other well enough for anything like that. Has he said he wanted to have sex with you? Because that is a sure sign he is not responsible enough... he is saying he wants to cheat on his GF which means he would cheat on you... Get where I'm going? Anyway... You have to decide in the long run, but remember to respect yourself. At least get to know him better and be a lot closer to him before you give him that much. I hope this was what you were looking for. Good luck.
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