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WOW WHAT ARE BESTEST FRIENDS FOR RIGHT?!?!


Question Posted Thursday April 17 2008, 9:22 pm

omg me and this girl almost got in a fight one day and i told me so called "friends" then today i was like about to fight her but i didnt. and then i get a call like an hour later my so called "best friend" was like come up to our school and i was hanging with my soccer buddy (shes like my bestest friend also) and i went up there and the girl i was about to fight was up there and my friends were like shes up here, fight her and i was like no im not just going to fight her and my so called "best friend" was like over by her talking to her and stuff. then one of my friends came up to the school like 2 hours later and no one was there but the guys playing basketball, soccer, and lacross. so my friend came over and was like so u fought that girl and i was like how do u know about that, and she was like well then "jane" (we will call my bestfriend" jane and the other one "kate" and my friend who is telling me this now, lets call her "maria") was at my house when she called you. and kate was like shhhhh dont talk i dont want jess(that what we will call me) to know shes where. and i dont know why they would do that. and then they say they did nothing. and maria was like, yeah there going to be giveing my shit all day tomorrow. and im not going to fight this girl. im going to be the big person. shes always been kinda mean and stuff to me. but she has always wanted to be my friend so i dont know what her problem is. please help.

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karenR answered Saturday April 19 2008, 11:50 am:
When "friends" act this way its best to
find new friends. Sounds to me like they
just want to stir up trouble. You don't
need people like that in your life, and
you need to tell them so. Let them go
stir up drama with someone else. :)

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CHECKERED-LOVE answered Saturday April 19 2008, 8:06 am:
She is not your real friend. You may think that she's got your back and your BFF, but if she does something like that to you she's not good to keep around. Girls are infamous for twisting things and being sneaky and your "friend" was a perfect example of that. Just don't let her influence you and don't tell her any of your secrets. You should still say hi in the hallways and stuff like that, but if you tell her or do things that she needs to keep secret, you know she'll tell. Don't trust anyone.

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