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My boyfriend is very experienced with sex. I'm ready to do it with him, but I don't want to seem unexperienced to him because I'm a virgin. I want to give him the sense that I know what I'm doing too. Can anyone give me a few pointers, or tips?
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The best tip or pointed I can give you is to be confident in yourself. Most things come naturally in this area so just go with your gut on it. Also if he is experienced he will help guide you along the way. Don't be nervous if you are then it will show during sex. Make sure you at least pretend you know what you are doing whether you do or not haha. That works better in the end than anything.
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The most important thing you can do is be fully comfortable with your boyfriend. You already mentioned that you feel ready to have sex, but letting down your guard and feeling totally comfortable with the guy you're seeing will make a huge difference. Your boyfriend will not be put off by your inexperience- after all, he was once a virgin himself. I am sure he (and most guys) would rather be with a girl they really like who is not experienced, than someone they don't care about who has experience with guys. What I mean to say, is that the most important factor here is you- how he feels about you. If the both of you know each other well enough and care about each other at a fairly deep level, then it doesn't matter. What matters is how you two feel about each other.
As for a tip, I can tell you that it's best to remind him to go slow since it is your first time. Do not be timid or anything, still be confident and frank with him. He will be understanding, and will be more than willing to show you a few things he likes. Once you start having sex, you will both see what you like, and can take it from there. For now, all I can tell you is to relax,and don't worry about being experienced or anything- in time, you will find out what you like, and how to please yourself and your boyfriend. If you need anything, message me.
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Most guys would really rather not think
you've had sex with a lot of others. Let
him teach you what he likes.
That being said we don't give sex tips on
this site. There are plenty of other sites
out there that do that already. A good
site for you to read before having sex the
first time is this one. It has lots of
information you should no before you take
that next step. :)
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