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little sister being a b*tch
My sister is 12 years old and is the biggest BITCH everrr. OMG she has a huge bad attitude. It’s soo annoying..i’m 15 and I’m nice to her and everything. And when she asks me for something and she’s keeps saying please I’ll let her…but omgg she is such a bitch, like if I’m like hey can you get me something…she’s like “no, you never do anything for me”..i’m like WTF I do soo many things for you…and if she gets in trouble for doing something and I did something a while back that I was’nt supposed to she’ll rat it out to my parents that way both of us are in trouble. And I’m the one in more trouble to…she’s also a spoiled brat…like she has a cellphone and contacts and she’s only in 6th grade….i had to wait till 8th grade to get mine….so basically..she’s does’nt respect anyone in my family…like she does’nt have respect for me, my mom, my dad, or even my grandma…like we don’t really ever do anything to her…she just does’nt have respect…I don’t know what to do with her…like I really don’t know….i tell her she has a bad attitude and all she says is so do you…and if I raise my voice at her she’ll be like don’t raise your voice at me and just backsass..it’s sooo annoying..ugh when she’s on the phone…she starts to have an even bigger attitude…I think it’s cause she wants to be cool in front of her friends…I’m trying to ignore her but it does’nt work…like seriously I need help nothing works….oo..and my parents are tired of her attitude also..and I know most people will be like it’s her age and stuff..and I know…but I don’t think that’s the only reason why….when she was little she was soo cute and adorable…now I just want to rip her head off…PLEASE HELP!!!
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just like i tell all the others i give advice to, you need to talk about it. sit down with the family and discuss new rules around the house. i can see and i beleive that your sister is very spoiled and maybe favored by your parents because she is the youngest. talk with your mom or dad about this. they will or should set boundaries for you sister and even you. your sister needs to learn how to be more respectful and considerate of others. you need to show her how she acts and maybe that will open up her eyes to see how she is acting. when she wants you to do something for her tell her no and that she needs to do somethings by herself and not always rely on her. this may make her realize. or whenever your around her act like she does to you. this won't completly fix the problem but show her how she is acting. now don't get into the habit of acting like she does. only for a while until she gets the point. best of luck.
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I agree with Sin C Chic about everything, basically. It sounds to me like your sister is very spoiled. A way to fix this is make her give up something she really likes, or something she "can't live without". Your parents do have to set boundries. It's the only way to get her under control! If your parents keep spoiling her, how do you think she will act by the time she's an adult? Scary thought? When your sis is not around, have a meeting with your rents and come up with some ideas. Since I don't really know your sister, I don't know how she would take some of this stuff. But it's worth a try right?
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First I'll say the cliche...it does have a lot to do with her age AND the fact that she is a 'little' sister. Prepare yourself honey..you haven't even gotten to the bad part yet. Once you hit 16 she's going to do everything in her power to not let you drive anywhere without her in that passenger seat. Even though it doesn't seem like it, she's envious of you, she wants to be like you. Her acts of disrespect are simply to get attention. (Not a great way to do it, but normal). Instead of getting mad at her for always being a "b***h" why don't you try and include her in a few things you do. If you include her than may she won't fight so hard to put a stop to it. As far as her being spoiled...that's a lot of the reason she doesn't respect anything or anyone. You are her big sister and it's amazing that you are trying to get help for her, but your parents need to put a stop to the spoiled attitude. They need to make her 'earn' the things that she receives instead of doing things just so she'll stop asking. I think you are a great big sister and in time you'll learn that she isn't as bad as she seems now. I hope that things work out for you!! Let me know how they go.
<3 Leslie
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