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what will he expect now?
i finally had sex with my bf.
and i feel great about it
i think i was mentally prepared and ready for it
i didn't rush into or anything...but
will he expect me to have sex with him all the time now?
when will it stop hurting?
and is he going to be expecting me to do more of the work...or try new kinky things?
please don't tell me to ask him
thats why im asking you lol
thanks<3
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Yes he will probably be expecting it from now on, but I can't say what he will want from you. Most guys want to change it up and try new things, he will probably want to try new positions and things like that.
It should stop hurting like the 4th or 5th time you do it, but who can really say. Some people it doesn't hurt after like the second time, but who knows. Im very proud that you made a mature decision and made sure you were ready that was very responsible of you.
I know you said not to tell you to ask him but you should really talk to him about it, if you can't talk to the person you are having sex with about sex, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
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yes, hell be expecting more sex.
but he probably wont expect you to do more of the work for a while.
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Ok, listen. You do not have to do anything you do not want to do. So, if you do not feel like having sex again for a while after this, that is your decision. If he is an understanding boyfriend, he will respect your wishes.
It will stop hurting once you get used to it. It does take time.
Sexual experiences are different for different people. As you grow sexually, you will want to try new things, but you will be the judge of when you are ready and what things you want to try.
I will say two very important things.
~1~ Communication in any relationship is key. If you feel that it is okay to have sex with him, then communication should be no problem. If you do not communicate with your boyfriend, then you are going to have problems later on.
~2~ Also, always practice safe sex. You do not need to add to your worries by getting pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease.
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