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i cant stand to be home anymore my parents are always complaining about crap i didnt even do they annoy me sooo much, but i cant just get up and leave, anyone have advise?
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Hey, now depending on your age, like if you are 18 or older you have the choice to move out. If you feel you aren't ready just sit down and talk with your parents. Let them know how you feel and they will understand, because they can't help you unless you tell them what's wrong.
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count to ten;
listen to calming music or whatever.
step outside and take a break.
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Have they always complained about "things you do"? Has it always bothered you? I think the reason it bothers people live with parents is that we all have a "time to leave the nest" button. We all have a time when everything bothers us and we have to leave home, a job, a partner. Few people don't have it and they are those 40 something people still living with mom. I was a guest at my sister's super nice house on christmas for 16 days. It was great the first 7 days. She has better snaks, cable, maid, jacuzzi... I felt like I was in a 5 star hotel. Then came the little comments, requests, her kids dirty looks, we all started to feel like fun was over so i left early. You might be psychologically ready to move out even if chronologically you are not. I would try to hit the "snooze" button on your independence clock and take a deep breath and wait for the right time. Try to help your parents understand how it feels, on a saturday (silly as it might sound) ask them to do a role reversal and act out what bothers you and they act what bothers them. Like freaky friday. Good luck
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