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my friend hates this guy
my friend hates this guy i like, and he always says stuff to her thats like not really mean but its rude, and idk what to do about it because i dont want to loose her as a friend but then again i dont want to loose him....im sooo confussed???
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There has to be a reason your friend dislikes the guy you like. It would help if you gave an example of something he's said to her, but regardless, it is unfair for him to talk down to her. Your priority here is your friend. Next time he says something rude to her, stick up for your friend. Even if she doesn't say anything, she must feel offended or even hurt, so if you stick up for her and tell him to stop his comments, you will be the bigger person.
Also, if he continues being this rude to her, it's a bad sign. He could start talking down to you too, later on down the line. People like that are bad news. You may like him now, but if you see the real him, you probably won't- you should try talking to him about it, maybe mention that your friend doesn't like how he talks to her, and that he needs to be nice to her. If he doesn't stop, lose him. You (and your friend) deserve better.
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Ask him straight out why he's always so rude to her. Tell him to quit it. If we won't, don't bother with him or just see him when she's not around.
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