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Pregnency.


Question Posted Monday April 7 2008, 3:55 am

Well...Ive been doing drugs for the past 2 or3 years. So it makes me kinda spacey and paranoid over nothing. Well,in early march. I got messed up and had sex with my ex boyfriend. He told me he didnt nut...my friend melissa told me he didnt nut. SO im like okay i should be fine and from what i remember he didnt nut. And we only had sex off and on for about 20-30 minutes because he was drunk and high on pills,and he couldnt get hard. So its now april...ive missed my periods before...would i know if i was preganent by now? would i have grown ne? I thinks its due to stress its happened b4 ne advice is helpful =] Thanks.

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Melody answered Monday April 7 2008, 10:03 pm:
If you had sex with this boy, regardless of whether he ejaculated or not, you could be pregnant. Besides, you can't always trust boys on telling you whether they got off or not. Especially if they are as "high on pills" as you are making him out to be. And how the hell would your friend Melissa know if he got off? Use your head.

Drugs + Teens + Sex = Pregnancy

Doing drugs does not make you cool, it makes you stupid. Popping pills is not only dangerous, but it's near suicidal. Don't be a stereotype for other teenage girls out there. For a poor baby's sake, I hope to God you aren't pregnant. Getting pregnant in highschool is not smart. Doing drugs is just stupid. So what does that make you? Pathetic.

Do you honestly hate yourself so bad that you could do this to yourself? I honestly never judge anyone on this site, and if I have something negative to say to them, I keep it to myself. But hopefully I will cyber-slap some since into your head.

I'm sure you are a smart girl. Maybe if you weren't so screwed up on drugs, you would know how to spell pregnancy, before, and any. Use your head and stop doing drugs. I promise they don't make you look cooler. They make you look like a skank.

FYI: Stress does cause periods to come late, but if you had sex that month, take a pregnancy test. Hopefully you can spare $7 on one since you can obviously afford pills. If you were pregnant you would not be any bigger yet.

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glockgirl40 answered Monday April 7 2008, 11:43 am:
You are probably not ok due to the drugs and promiscuity. You probably both have sex with anyone and might have STD's. Aside from endangering your health with drugs, being so out of it you could get hurt and unprotected sex, I would say buying a pregancy test instead of asking strangers who cannot detect your pregnancy is a good start. Get an HIV test too if you trust Melissa to tell you that he didn't "nut". (was she watching this un-nut event?)

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brokenfaeriewing answered Monday April 7 2008, 11:29 am:
Okay, seriously, I just had that prob. Are you having weird mood swings, like, really depressed one day and then super happy the next day? Eating habits changed besides the occasional "munchies"? If so, then it's just period probs. There is the possibility that you could've gotten pregnant even if he didn't get hard, but chances are still slim. So I'd say you're okay.
yeah like i said i just had that prob myself...2 months no period...OMG i freaked but I looked it up on Web MD and it's normal. Drug use not only lessens ur chance of getting pregnant, but also can screw with ur system. So you're most likely fine.

*Abra Apocalypse*

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