okay so me & my boyfriend have had sex before and maybe like 2 weeks ago.. he stuck it in me twice with no condom, and it was just two pumps.. and i'm always so paranoid about that stuff. so i keep thinking i'm pregnant. i got my period february 29th and it lasted till march 7th but that was before this happened. so i'm guessing that was my period for march. and now i'm constantly thinking i'm pregnant. i feel like i gained weight in my stomach, i've been eating alot and i've been having to pee alot.. or i think i have and it really hurts down there. i go to the bathroom once then about a half hour later i have to go again and barley anything comes outt.. idk i'm really scared but all of this might be because i'm over thinking it. please help me. thank youu
thelaura answered Friday April 4 2008, 10:28 am: There's always that chance. You'll just have to wait and see if your period comes - if not, take a test.
May I also point something out to you:
You say you need to pee frequently and barely anything comes out..and it hurts alot down there. It sounds like a possible UTI which can be cleared up with antibiotics if you go to a doc. If it IS a UTI and you just leave it, there's a chance it could spread and make you quite poorly. Read up on it. If it sounds like you, go to the doctor.
Jasmine_Moon answered Thursday April 3 2008, 11:50 pm: It may be embarrassing to buy..but there are preg. tests out there that will tell you if your pregnant almost right away. Maybe you could shop at the local "superstore" late at night? This way it is likely only one person would see you..the one opening the case (I've never understood why they lock them up, or put them behind the counter!, so very cruel to young people to be forced to request it!!)
It might be worth looking into, at least to ease your mind (believe me I've been there when I was quite young..fortunately I was just worried for nothing!)
If your menstrual cycle is already due, there are many anonymous programs out there that will give you a free walk in urine test.
Also, if you have the courage to buy the test, or go to a facility...and, goddess bless you, if you are pregnant, it will give you more time to weigh your options.
karisue answered Thursday April 3 2008, 11:04 pm: it's normal to worry.
& sadly, it is possible that you could be pregnant.
if he stuck it in you, and you were near your fertile period, and he precummed any at all, there's a slim chance that it could fertilize you.
there are no guarantees to detecting by yourself if you are pregnant.
periods run about every 20-28 days.
it's been 27 days since you've had your last period, if your period is always out of balance, then don't stress yet.
but give yourself a couple more weeks & if you still don't start, then i would advise you to take a pregnanct test.
but there is a such thing as a a fake pregnancy, where a girl can get soooo worried about being pregnant, that she can possibly convince herself that she is. she'll skip her period, urinate excessively, and even lactate every now & then.
so i would be careful worrying so much about this.
just try your best to stay calm for a couple weeks & then take a test.
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