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my friend's 15 and acts like a kid.


Question Posted Monday March 31 2008, 10:36 am

hi, i was wondering: is it normal to be like 15 and have the life of like a little kid.?
my friend is like 15 and her mom treats her like a little kid. its kind of weird going over her house.
EX: like her bed has one of them fence things so the baby wont fall out.
she even has a pacifier =| =o =[
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this is weird!!! what should i do? idk if she knows she's like 15.
?? help.


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sunbod35 answered Monday March 31 2008, 12:27 pm:
How do these things hinder your development or hurt your friend? Your manner of expression is not that of a 15 year old, more like an 11 year old. The bed could be a hand-me-down or just old. The pacifier could be a gag from a party or friend. If this is your definition of weird, don't go to her weird house. It's hard for me to imagine so many homes that are so normal, that a railed bed and babyish treatment is considered a concern. Consider yourself lucky that neither you nor your friend are physically, mentally, sexually abused or neglected.

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triquetra answered Monday March 31 2008, 12:05 pm:
Could it be that she's got a small mental problem which you don't know about? It's a possibility or it could be that her mum is over protective of her.

I've got a friend at my school and he just acts weird, like i mean he says random words and acts more like a 6 year old, even though he's 15/16. Even his younger brother has matured quicker than him and it's weird and he embarrasses him to no end. Try and living with him for two terms (I board at my school) with the endless weirdness.

I would just let her be for the moment until you begin to see something wrong. But you can ask her and if that is the case but be careful, if she takes it the wrong way, then that could lead to trouble. So word it carefully like "I was just wondering ........., why does your mum put railings on your bed?". Make it sound more like an enquiry and not a investigation.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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chusmaleidy12 answered Monday March 31 2008, 11:46 am:
i think u shuld talk 2 her but remember. she ur friend n you have 2 accept her da way she is.

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