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i don't know what to do=(
I don't know what to do about him, i love him so much and i thought he loved me to but he actually likes one of my best friends and i hate this because to me thats all the talk about=( well they only talk about to me is how much they love each other and i don't know what to do because i seriously like him and i want him to be mine. not trying to be selfish but i love him and she doesn't deserve him she can be so mean! i hate this!!
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okay my advice is probaly gonna be hurtful but its the truth
hes just a social climber dont listen do him. even if you like him you should end it. i garentee you he doesnt like you hes just using you to get to your best friend and i know this is hurtful but its the truth. im sorry
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I know what you're going through, having experienced this myself. Watching somebody whom you love getting drawn away and they not knowing how you feel about them is horrible. I had a tough time getting through this and it was hard because i kept on seeing that person and knowing that we can't be together or tell that person how i felt was heart breaking (literally) for me.
But then, i had a revelation. I had to trust that there was somebody else out there who would be worthy of that person because compared to that person, we're opposites. I'm more reserved whilst the other was more open and strived to do well in all that that person did.
So, I'm now wanting to be a friend to that person, to help whenever possible and this is what i suggest that you do: just be there for him and support him if the relationship doesn't go well.
I know that this may not be what you want to hear but think about it. If he's happy with her, then let it be because if he's happy, then you should be happy for him. I'm not saying to give up the love you've got for him; just wait and see what happens.
I hope this helped and good luck with the future,
triquetra
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well,
ive been througth this 1,000 times.
Now if you like him so much why dont
you talk to her about how you feel.
And if she still dosent underdtand your
feelings she dosent deserve to be one of your best friends if shes not going to understand how you feel.
Hope Ive Help.
Good Luck.
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i know how you feel. trust me, i know how much it really sucks. i think that you need to talk to your friend about it. tell her how you feel. tell her that you're happy for her but you really do have strong feelings for this guy. and i know it's going to be hard, but its probably best to also tell this guy how you feel. you should tell him that it really hurt you because you thought that he liked you but he really liked one of your best friends. you need to get your feelings out in the open. its not good to keep those types of things bottled up!!
tell me how it goes =]]]
i really hope it works out!!
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