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i do not know what is wrong with me :/
well me and my ex have been broken up for months now and at first it was nothing and then i sarted getting obssed with him and then i got really angry with him like i would always say man i ahte him and i would talk to his friends bad about him. or ill text him out of now were making up something to see i he would talk to and when i go to his myspace i see his ex third on is top and it makes me very very angry so i deleted him becuase last time i deleted him he added me back but not this time so im gettting very very mad.
then i see him at school and he use to say hi to me but i just ignored him and walked on by. now we dont even talk and i regret what i did to him like ignore him when he said hi to me and all that how do i get back with him? or at least get him to get my attention? what do i do to come down the ex? i just want to talk to him i miss him and i know he is the one for me i just know it i dont anybody else and its not ike i cant just go up to him and talk to him now. any advice?
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First of all, how old are you? If you are younger than 16, i wouldn't recommend saying that you know he is the right one for you. If you are younger than 16, you need to build up other relationships. Second, like the other person said, get over him. If he doesn't want to be with you, it's his choice. Maybe you could leave him a note in his locker or someting saying you only want to be FRIENDS, if you really want to hang out with him some more. From what it sounds like, you are going through and emotional grieving process. here is a list of the grieving stages. if they sound familiar, then yep, your only going through a grieving process. if you're not, i can't help you.
Stage theories and processes
Shock and denial (disbelief)
Volatile reactions
Disorganization and despair
Reorganization
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My advice is to get over him and yourself. I'm not trying to sound sarcastic or rude, but really. You lost your right to have imput in his life when you two broke up and then you acted as if you wanted nothing to do with him. Apologizing works sometimes, but you're so obsessed with him right now it would probably just weird him out. Everybody needs space. Give him, his.
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