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He Is Cramping me.
This is really long. but it would be easyer if you knew the whole story
Ok so i have this awsome boyfriend and i like him. ALOT. i mean we have talked on the phone for 6 hours and never had nothing to talk about. but the things is. he ALWAYS wants to hang out and he ALWAYS wants to talk on the phone. and on myspace hes always emailing me. like around 20-25 emails a day. and he bought me a necklace and i dont really want to take it because i dont know if i can stay with him. im a very different girl then what he thinks. he only knows one side of me,the party girl/friendly/prepy side. because hes really shy. he doesnt know that i just get really sad and it takes me a few days to get out of it. or sometimes i go days without really talking to my boyfriend. Or that when i play soccer, i dont like to talk to people before or after.(when i say people i mean guys) and i like him but hes not the type of guy people picture me with. i mean i like him but i think hes looking for a more serious relationshit. and im looking for a fun, long-relationship. and we were friends before if that helps any.
Please help. i dont know what to do!
=( Confused and cramped
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Just to let you know, a fun long relationship, is a serious relationship.
Okay, so you both like each other a lot, yes? He does seem alittle or a lot clingy. It's great that he wants to talk and hang out with you as much as he does, because most guys aren't like that, they want time for their friends too. I would suggest to him that you're a busy girl and need alittle more space that what he is giving you, ask him to limit down the Myspace messages, or the phone calls. He may become offended by this or mad, but you need to do what you need to do, don't you ?
Just say this in the nicest way possible, because you don't want to hurt his feelings.
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Ariell
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The best serious relationship is a fun, long relationship. ;-)
What you should do is open up to him. Don't just let him know one side of you- introduce him to ALL sides of you. That's a part of the whole "getting to know one another on a deeper level."
So you like him A LOT. Sounds like he feels the same about you. Come out and say to him that, yes, you have sad spells, you like to talk to other guys (I assume you mean in the friendly manner), if you feel he's smothering you with emails and such at times, say so. Etc., etc.
Just because he's not the type of guy others picture you with, doesn't mean a thing. Your relationships in this life aren't up to others, and your life isn't a soap opera drama to entertain the masses.
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