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My Best-friend and her boyfriend!
Hi I'm 15 and my best friend is in a relationship with a guy that doesnt go to our school, he just met me, and now me and him are friends, now hes adorable and a sweetheart, he is really nice, and I think I might like him, now I cant tell my best friend that I like him or it will crush her, she talks about him nonstop, and I am happy for her that shes in an awesome relationship, but I am extremely jealous and I have never been in a relationship so I feel really bad that she has the best guy I know and I have no one, Sometimes I cry myself to sleep because I feel like no one loves me, and when I first met her boyfriend he gave me a huge hug and I felt special but I know it was just a friendly hug, HELP me please I have no clue what to do!
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Get over him please. Losing your best friend over a guy is stupid. Don't tell her that you like him. The reason he was so nice to you and gave you a friendly hug was probably because he wanted to be on good terms with his GIRLFRIEND'S BEST FRIEND. Stop yourself before its too late...I know what you mean when you say you feel no one loves you...but the time will come...and trust me, there are PLENTY of single boys coming your way.
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hes OFF LIMITS babe. sorry but thats how it is. unless you want to totally ruin your friendship. i know how you feel though. it sucks when you like a guy that your friend likes. its kinda like a rule, whoever liked him first gets him. i know its not fair at all but thats what you have to do to be a good friend. maybe you could ask this kid to introduce you to some of his friends. like hang out with your best friend, her boyfriend and her boyfriend's friends. hopefully his friends will be similar to him =]
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I think you only like him because he's the first male figure to show you love .. i think you shouldnt pursue your feeling just because your friend shows real love for him and sometimes i feel the same way you do but you what i could only be happy if you feel good about yourself look in the mirror and say " i look good any guy would be happy to be with me" and mean it because its true say it everyday and when you feel you've built up your selfestem the meet ney guys put yourself out the (( but dont be desperate)) Have fun be yourself xoxoxo gossipbabe
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Do nothing. It's totally normal to develop a crush on a sweet, nice guy. But a) he's taken, and b) he's with your best friend. So that makes him doubly off-limits.
You'll be much better off (infinitely so, actually) if you stay friends with both of them. But you can develop a friendship with this guy, provided you don't try to make it something more. Focus not on this guy, but on the available guys you've yet to meet, or have been overlooking.
-LM
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