iam a 66 year old female was married for 46 years have been a widow for 5 years but now have found a new love but when we make love i can not seem to have a orgasm. does that mean there is something wrong with me ? this man is very good and sweet and tender so know it is not him . we just really have fun and a great time.could it be some of the medications i am on or am i just to old? Thank you
cloudy_conscience answered Sunday March 23 2008, 11:22 pm: It could be a number of things including those you named above. You should probably just continue what you are doing or maybe try new things to try and get you closer to reaching your peak. You could also try talking to your doctor to see if it is the medications you are on. If so maybe he can change the medications. Hope things work out for you =] It sounds lik eyou really like this man.
teenage_drifter answered Sunday March 23 2008, 8:56 pm: It could be both. Some medications do affect the body in such ways. It could also be that you're in a menopausal stage, the decrease in hormones, such as estrogen can cause a woman to find it difficult to have an orgasm after she reaches a certain age. A trip to the doctor should easily help you with either or both of the problems. He can put you on stable medication that increases the estrogen in your body to help increase your sexual responses.
karenR answered Sunday March 23 2008, 8:34 pm: This is something you need to consult your
doctor about. It could be meds. Many of them
have side effects. You may be pre-menopausal.
Whatever it is a trip to the doctor will
be the answer. You are NOT to old! Give
the doctor all the facts. If you think you
will be nervous and forget to ask something,
write it all down before you go. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
You_Got_Advice answered Sunday March 23 2008, 7:40 pm: i think it's effects of menopause. on the internet it said:
"Sexual encounters may change in quality because of decreased pleasure with penetration, difficulty reaching climax, weak orgasmic sensations, etc. Even before menopause, many women stop feeling the need to have an orgasm with every sexual encounter." [ You_Got_Advice's advice column | Ask You_Got_Advice A Question ]
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