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am i Bi?
(f/16)im straight. i like guys, but penis grosses me out. and theres this girl, i dont kno how i feel about her. am i idolising her, obsesing or just in love? shes bi. has a long distance bf she doesnt care about. and me and her are really good friends. we cuddle. but i still beilive im stright. also my sis is a les so maybe im just thinking this way cuz iv been around her way of living. i dont like vaginas or boobs are any bodyparts. i dont care whats down the persons pants. what should i think?? -Sighned Loveless
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Well like a lot of other responses, I agree I think you are just curious. A lot of people go through this, It just a state of mind. When i was younger, and even when i got a little older i didnt like penis and the thought of guys having a penis grossed me out a little. But I was/am a 100% straight. I think you are just like a lot of others where you wonder about being gay and bi and it is natural. If you happen to develop a slight crush on the same sex, in your case a female it may mean that you are lesbian or bi-sexual. Just wait and see what happens because in adolesence years you go through a bunch of different phases and it is natuaral. Just go with your gut and try different things.
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Being curious doen't mean you are bisexual, it just means you are curious. A LOT of women get like this about other women, we sometimes find ourselves attached to other women, this doesn't mean we're in love with them. Have you thought about how she makes you feel when you first see her and how it makes you feel if she touchs you (non sexually, just friendly.
Think about these things, we all get unsure some times, that doesn't mean you're one thing or the other. If you're curious, you might get in a situation where you try something, maybe try to kiss her etc, if you like it, then go with it, if you don't then you know.
Anyway, there is nothing wrong with being bisexual, it's all about being comfortable with yourself, don't be afraid to find what makes you happy.
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Bi-curious:]
You are thinking about things you arent sure about...
Every girl gets this way...
HAY, i have 2.
Girls are always admiring eachother.
NATURAL.
but, guess what im straight.
But sometimes i do get alot interested in girls....
You say you cuddle with her???
Try doing this...
Try making a move and see if you truely like it.
hope i help
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I think you're just curious :] all teenagars go through tis, when they wonder if they're NOT straight. Don't worry about it, just let yourself find out. If it turns out you do dig chicks, don't worry about it. it's not a bad thing. Goodluck!
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