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Advice needed please!
Let's start off with the fact that i love to act, i've been in over 15 shows, but recently i was performing Romeo and Juliet, and i got the role of Juliet. Well the guy who was Romeo was kind of a nerd and i didn't want to kiss him on stage at all, but after going threw that scene where i kissed him i kind of liked it. Later in rehearsals and cast parties we started to hang out and we flirted a lot! And i started to really like him. So i went to his best friend and told her that i liked him and asked if he might like be back, but she flicked me off and told me that she was in love with him and that he probably hated me. Do you think i have the right to be mad at her and keep flirting with him or should i just stop liking him?
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She sounds very jealous you like him AND got to kiss him. There's no reason why you can't like him and go for it. It's not like she's his girlfriend.
Don't talk to her about him in future. She sees you as a threat because she wants him for herself.
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Why be mad at her? That would be a complete waste of your time. Maybe she's just protecting him or she just wants him for herself. Can you fault her for that and using her claws to get you to back off? You would likely do the same.
What should you do? Approach the guy on your own terms and tell him you weren't sure whether he was flirting or being friendly. See what he says and tell him you're interested in him. Don't rely on other people like this girl because they all have their own loyalties and agenda.
To know where you truly stand you need to go after the source himself. If you were flirting and he showed that he liked you or got along with you than you stand a chance. This girl knows that so she's trying to knock you out of the picture. She's the last one to trust.
Go talk to him and forget about her. Let the chips fall where they may and at least you'll know whether he's in to you or not. All she wants to do is eliminate you as a threat to getting the guy she wants. That's all there is to it. Why be mad at her? Her reaction is natural as she sees you as a threat to what she longs for also.
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Well if he is not spoken for, it should be up to him to decide who to be with. If you want to flirt all you like... until he has an official girlfriend. This girl just sounds jealous.
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She's more than likely seen you guys kiss, and I see a little green creature lurking. ;) Go right ahead, hun. You've got a good thing going for you.
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