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Hurting me?
Heres the story: Friday I was getting gas at this gas station and then all of a sudden my boyfriend appears and he starts talking to me, earlier friday i was pissed at him becasue he told me he stoped smoking pot, then he gave his pipe to one my friends and i asked him why he didn't throw it away a long time ago, because i asked him to stop like 4 months ago. His answer was i don't know, then i heard he was gonna smoke so i asked him and he said he didn't have any weed or else he would have. This got me so mad becasue if its in front of him he will do it, it shows weakness and he gives into pressure and i don't like that. So anyways, we started talking about this at the gas station and we both got mad, so i wanted to get into my car and go, but he blocked the door, we start talking again and i got all scared because i thought he was gonna hit me (he hit his dad before and knocked him out) so i walked towards my door again and he still wouldn't let me in. I got so scared, i thought he was gonna hurt me, and the look on his face scared me so bad. Fnally i got into my car and left, and went to my friends house and was shaking and kinda crying and i couldn't sleep becasue i thought he was gonna come over there and kill me. So today i talked to him and he said he wasn't in a violent mood he was just upset and he told me how he changed and stuff so i said okay one more chance. Quesiton: But was the a good descion? This is the second time he has scared me like that, and all my friends tell me that i should end it becsaue i will end up getting hurt, physically. and this is the 4th chance i have given him becasue he has done other things behind my back and stuff.
Questions: so what do i do? was that a good descion or should i have just ended it? please i need help!
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You already know what you should do...leave him and never look back. Make sure that you have the support of family and friends for your safety and to keep you accountable to your decision. He may come around and offer you words that sound good, but he is not good for keeping his word. No more giving guys all these chances and opportunities to keep screwing with your life. You are better than this and you deserve to be safe and respected, but a great guy does not have a chance with you if you keep yourself in the company of losers. Respect yourself too much to ever let anyone pull this with you again. Bring yourself up to living with higher standards for yourself and you will eventually attract the right kind of guys. Girls that are too nice and have low self-esteem are like waiting targets for jerks and losers. Change your mind about what you can be and have and it will change your life.
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All those chances? He should have learnt by now. and so should you.
If he hurt is DAD, he can hurt anyone - including you.
Don't wait for it to happen. Just get out before it does.
He does things you don't like and you feel threatened by his behaviour. What more will it take to make you realize he's not for you? Broken heart? Broken bones?
You don't need someone like that in your life. It's not a way a person should be treated.
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If someone truly loves you they would never make you feel as if you are in danger. They would want to make you feel special and protected - he does not.
He will hurt you both physically and emotionally if you let him and it will turn into a downward spiral where you could end up seriously hurt or worse!!
Leave him now and find someone truly deserving of your love. Don't let him back into your life with promises of change - he won't change. Tell your parents if you are afraid of him and ask for their help. They will be on your side.
He sounds like a nasty piece of work that can only get his way with his fists, and if he is capable of assaulting his own father, what will he do to you?
PLEASE LEAVE HIM NOW. Good luck.
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LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY!!
If you ever feel like your in danger of being hit by a man chances are he will hit you.
No more chances baby girl. Its so many good men out there that dont smoke and would never lay a hand on you. You can do so much better.
Just think about it, if he hit his dad and thats family, what makes you think that he wont hit you? Your just his girlfriend.
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