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annoying people


Question Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 2:31 pm

alright so basically theres this girl who is really annoying to me. and she doesnt even do that much that is annoying but for some reason every time she talks i think shes annoying for it, even if shes just asking for the homework or something. dont be mistaken though, she does a lot of annoying things that really ARE annoying.

now im getting so insecure that everything i say comes out as annoying as what the girl says. i know that deep inside, im not really like her, but im still worried. every time i open my mouth i revise what im about to say so i dont sound as annoying as the girl, and its really taking a toll on me. opinions? what should i do?


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triquetra answered Sunday March 9 2008, 5:38 pm:
Just ignore her. Don't let her influence conrtol your life. It's your body, your toungue, your mind, don't let somebody else have that kind of control over you.

I board at my school and i've got one annoying room mate whose successfully managed to get me down to my last nerve and i loose it which is an achievement because that only usually happens once or twice every year, but it's happened at least once every term!!! But what i did was to relax (which helped) and tried and ignore his doings but after i found that it was useless (the ignoring), I got used to it and here i am, a term later and still in his room with the craziness still going on around me!!

Live your life the way you want and don't be worried by what you say.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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Brandi_S answered Sunday March 9 2008, 5:16 pm:
What should you do? STOP THAT.

You are not that girl. You are your own person. What comes out of your mouth is something you would normally say, not something some annoying person would say.

When she's this much of a bother to you that you are actually scripting in your head what you plan to say next, annoyance is becoming an obsession. That's not healthy.

Try to avoid her and save yourself anymore headache.

ygs-29/f

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