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pre-cum
a day ago i had sex with my gf and we had a little foreplay and she masturbated me and i got wet with some fluid(precum) then we had sex while i was putting on a condom first i put it on opposite side because of lights were off and then the back to the other side. i just read from the condom instruction that i should use a new condom if i put it on opposite. i didn't know back then. what are the chances???
is been a day, does pill help??? any other help that can increase my chance of being safe??
thnx for advice
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Agreed about the Plan B pill. If you aren't 18, ask someone who is to buy it for you, or call a local planned parenthood. As for the "chances" it's something you need to discuss with your girlfriend, she knows her body and can tell you when she had her last period, ect. Typically, there is a window of 2 or 3 days exactly two weeks after she gets her period where she can become pregnant, so she's really the only one who can asses how at risk you are. As for in the future, yes the pill can help, but condoms are highly effective when used correctly (it's totally okay to slip up, but talk it out before hand about the back up plans) Generally, it's a low risk, people tend to blow it far more out of proportion. I know it's scary but the best thing to do is to keep calm and talk everything through with your girlfriend
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My advice to you young man is if you are gonna play, be prepared to pay. In other words don't have sex unless you are ready to take on the responsibility of another human life. I know that's not what you want to hear and I could care less about whatever rating I'll get. I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear but only to give advice. However, you are at least responsible enough to use protection. The reason why they want you to use the right side is because it's lubed and contains a spermicide. The inside is not lubed thus causing a snug fit, eliminating the possibility of slippage. More than likely, if she was "wet" enough and there didn't appear to be any visible holes in the condom then more than likely you are ok.
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Let your girlfriend know about this, and ask her to take Plan B (morning after pill). There are two pills, one taken in the morning and the other at night. It is very effective at preventing a possible pregnancy, up to 3 days after sex. It would be nice of you to offer to pay, it's probably around $15-$20. That is probably the best thing you can do. Depending on her age, and which state you live in (I'm assuming you live in the US), it is very accessible. She may have to go to planned parenthood or her gynecologist, and have a talk with a nurse or gyno (to assess her health)- they can give her a prescription up front. Here in California (and a few other states), you can go to any drugstore and get Plan B without a prescription, as long as you're over 18. Afterwards, she can take a pregnancy test if she is concerned.
Try not to be too nervous, chances are she is not pregnant, although the possibility is there. Make sure she gets the Plan B pills right away.
Here is a useful link with information about Plan B:
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