Im 17, I started having sex 2 years ago. I now have a different boyfriend and we've been together for a year now. I started taking birth control over the summer and recently we stopped using condoms but I've still been taking my pills. Recently it started to hurt during sex, like a hard pushing or stabbing feeling. Then I started bleeding while having sex and that has only happened 3 times and not every time we do it. Then the pain just kept getting worse and now we haven't had sex in a while because I don't want it to hurt. I've been really worried about it. And now my period is 5 days late. What is wrong with me?
Additional info, added Sunday March 9 2008, 12:21 pm: I just thought that I should add a few more things to this to get more advice, and yes I agree all of this is abnormal and I guess Im going to have to tell my mom. But, it's been a while after we stopped using condoms that this started happening. The past 2 or 3 months I've been getting more emotional and angered quickly. I cry a lot over little things and Im very moody. My hips, back, knees, wrists and such have been hurting, just feeling like I need to stretch. And Im also very tired all the time. And I've been losing interest in my boyfriend. I read another person who said all these same things and she though it was because of her kind of birth control but she was just starting hers and I've been on mine for a while and these things just started happening recently. So, could it be the birth control or something different? Also, I was supposed to start my period this week and I didn't, could that be because of stress? But, I got sick to my stomach this week for about 2 days it was very bad with a slight fever, but I never vomited. But, I never throw up, ever...so that's not uncommon for me. And ever since then I've been getting slight stomach aches everyday just not as bad. Could this have anything to with the other problems or maybe just a sickness? I read that the pain and bleeding during intercourse are symptoms of cervical cancer and I guess that freaked me out. But, I've had the shot for cervical where you have to have 3...but, I haven't gotten the 3rd one yet. All help is appreciated and thanks to those who have already answered!. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? blackberryforever answered Sunday March 9 2008, 1:43 pm: You have a urinary tract infection his dick could have been dirty. It hurt and you bleed bc your probably too dry try lube.some b controls dries you up. Look under health department (state* its free and they won't tell your parents for a exam. [ blackberryforever's advice column | Ask blackberryforever A Question ]
flamantrose answered Sunday March 9 2008, 3:59 am: It's true that it's abnormal. But, there are a couple simple explanations. Condoms usually come with lubricant on them, so switching off of them can be hard to adjust to. Also, check out all the info you can about YOUR pill. Carefully look at some side effects. It could be s small urinary tract infection or yeast infection too. More than likely, it would be any of those things because they are pretty common, but if you check out your pill info and it doesn't seem to match, definitely see a doctor. Don't panic, there are a billion things it could be. If it's pregnancy you're worried about, nothing you listed really describes some common warning signs. [ flamantrose's advice column | Ask flamantrose A Question ]
Pinkymeowcat answered Sunday March 9 2008, 1:21 am: Yes, I would definitely say that you need to go to a gynochologist. Just somehow bring up to your mom that girls are supposed to go starting at age 16 and you feel like you should see one... that way you get the help you need and your mom doesn't have to know about anything if she doesn't already. [ Pinkymeowcat's advice column | Ask Pinkymeowcat A Question ]
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